Why am I afraid to touch girls and flirt with them sexually?

Maybe it's because your still getting used to it. It does not come natural to everyone.
Could it be that you don't feel fully relaxed with the girls you're flirting with?
You'll get used it eventually.

 

Same here, although I used to be very good at it and comfortable too, but then I had a "hard-ish" breakup, I might have trust issues and I've developped trouble with any kind of intimacy, be it emotional or physical, I'm stiff as a rod. Do you think that might be the cause for you as well? Trust issues I mean

 

Because its not easy and it requires courage and skills

 

sometimes change or a new habit takes longer than we think. Also depends where are you located. In some parts of the world, touching a flirting is part of the normal culture, and in other parts of the world, it's not looked kindly on. The US is getting worse with the "me too movement" and the the crap that's happening. My advice to you: hang in there and travel!!!

 

i have the same issue, i got uncomfortable on a hookup, she started it and i had to call it off in middle as i didn’t felt any emotion for her.

 

Perhaps it's because you are "putting the cart before the horse".

 

explain please

 

Not taking the time to learn to make friends with people in general and putting too much focus on getting the girl. There's also the sex in marriage thing.

 

It's a contradiction. Most men are using this retention to power their lives up. So if you are on hard mode, but all you worry about is getting laid, then what will happen is that you get laid, and all your life's potential goes down the drain.

 

no actually she wanted to have sex and i was like whyyyyyy

 

idont sexually flirt with females or touch them, still they like talking to me an being around me, but they seem to like standing close to me when talking.Just talk about exciting stuff, what females find exciting is asking them their likes an hobbies,

 

Not a bad thing she wanted to have sex with you. If you were not feeling it with her then that's OK too. There are plenty of ladies out there who'll appreciate waiting.