I'm only 28and virgin , i will start by: 7 years ago where i have a small accident using the bike , a small injury in my penis , i freaked out back then because i couldn't get hard even with porn because of frustration, after some months i was better . now i decided to have a girlfriend , i got the image back of that situation where i couldn't get it up , it's has been a one week since I'm overthinking about that and now i think it's depression , just one week ago i have no problems getting it up until i start overthinking and depression has came from excessive thinking about if I'm broken or not. , i can't even have a proper errection even with porn because I'm depressed and stressed. i visited a urologist and he said i have nothing physically, it's in my head , but honestly I'm suicidal now and I'm thinking to break up with my gf. I'm sure it's psychological but honestly i have no idea how handle it. ps: i have been using porn and fapping for more than 14 years , sometimes 3/4 times per day need your advice please
yes , when i stoped before i felt so much better , I'm just scared about the future a.d i don't want to lose the gf because she is nice .
I have no advice for you. I would just end the relationship, there are too many implications in the couple´s dynamic if you have PIED. Either way, you will learn from your decision.
we are not planning to have sex before mariage, so maybe i have time to recover , but how's that , I'm not sure
That is a mistake. You have to explore your sexuality before marriage. If the sex is bad, the marriage will not survive.
Hey man, just start your reboot today and trust in the process. How long until the wedding? Definitely the thoughts swirling in your head won't help. If you start the reboot and trust that you are recovering, you will be fine.
Thanks , i did NoFap before and i swear it was working , but i relapsed , i regret it now. i will try to see a therapist because, i can't even think and lkve normally due to thinking ...