I am a guy in my 30s 8”I been on monk mode for 60 days now. No porn, no masturbation ,no wet dreams ,no edging ,no ejaculation ,no touching myself but when I see an attractive guy or anything about him that I like, I get to excited too fast and I feel Iam about to cum on myself. I get hard and can feel that my body is about to have an orgasm. I have to quickly distract myself and take deep breaths so that my semen don’t shoot out into my underwear. Does not matter if I am home or in public. It’s causing anxiety due to I don’t want to embarrass myself. Has this occur to anyone or you going through this?
sounds like a doozy... have you tried stopping the focus on the attractive guys or something? In certain contexts, that's like a gift... in others, yikes.
Not to your extent, but if I'm horny I can make myself ejaculate without actually touching myself. I think it's related to the sensitivity of the area and the control you can exert over the muscles. You can basically flex yourself to an orgasm. It's weird.
You shouldn't be, it's really annoying. Usually it leads to a lot of wet dreams and for me, too many wet dreams in a short period feels worse than a relapse.
I'm always so horny, that I don't require physical stimulation to cum. I have an uncanny ability to cum hands free, and that is a very big issue for me here. If I abstain for long enough, the slightest bit of visual stimulation will send me over the edge. I used to brag about this ability, but now it's a curse
Yes, I’ve ejaculated 4-5 times in the last few years just from thoughts. Even sitting in an upright position, hands off dick, no porn, fully clothed. Not even fantasizing, usually just stimulation from excitement about the thought of “what if I watched porn”
I'm quite ashamed that I allowed it to happen sitting in my car, in my work uniform, in an empty parking lot before sunrise Still related to the filth that gets me off
I wish it led me to wet dreams, but that is the problem, I don't get those like I use to years ago. This is becoming annoying. If I want to talk to a dude that is hot, I can't. Imagine me talking to a hot dude and I cum on myself while talking to him. First How in the world I m going to hide my orgasmic expression and two pray to god there is a bathroom nearby to clean up the mess in my underwear. This is pretty annoying.
I had that ability too, that I can cum at will without touching for years and I think I fucked my self over since I stop dong that couple years ago. God forbid I stare at a hot dude for some good 5 mins, I am screwed. I feel like a fucking kid hitting puberty all over again. Sucks. You know when your ashamed getting hard ons you can't control and you cum on yourself cuz your dick is too sensitive. I feel like I m in that stage all over again. I think this should not be happening when you get into NoFap/ semen retention.
well, at times its out of my control if a hot guy shows up in my path, I am watching T.V or surfing the web. I try my best to take my mind off, but since I have not cum in such a long time, once my body gets excited it wants to keep on getting excited, it has a mind of its own and my dick has a goal to cum and I do my best to not to, so far I am a winner but not sure how long I can go on without ejaculating.