I am 26 and have grappled with porn since elementary school. There have been only a handful of times in my life where I spanned more than a month without it. December 2023 was a huge milestone for me in abstaining, but then this month I've crashed and burned. My buddy recommended I join this forum because it helped him with his own struggles. Nothing ever changes if nothing changes, so instead of just another attempt at white knuckling it, I'm joining here for some extra support. I want to kick porn entirely and desexualize my mind. I look forward to engaging with this community.
Welcome. I'm new to this forum, too and looking for accountability partners. I highly recommend the PBSE (Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts) Podcast - particularly if you have a spouse or significant other.
You can kick porn entirely. I have been able to do it with help from others. And I was a porn addict for 25 years.