In NYC we have an abundance of massage places that provide special services. Is it cheating? I think so. Can you tell my brain is screaming for dopamine? Aaaaaargh
Buddy of mine about 2 years ago visited one and the lady apprently had a cut on her finger which somehow transferred something to his penis which gave him and STD. So not trying to scare anyone but id be weary lol
You want to re-wire your brain towards real, healthy sex with a partner, so I'd say this is off-limits. It'd fall under paying for a prostitute and strip clubs in my opinion. Sure it's a real person, but there's no real connection there just an exchange of money for services.
I know guys on here whose marriages were destroyed by MPs and the lack of trust that frequenting them permanently engenders in their marriage. Don't open that door too lightly - it can become a gripping addiction that you may never be able to stop, even when you've found the best partner in your life - or if single, even when you have come to esteem the best of yourself. MPs will always be the grip on you that destroy both - if PMO has not already done so.