We are talking here about avoiding PMO yet I see few posts of a very related thing: penises. I'm sure everyone here fapped in the shower at least once, so share your technique to avoid ejaculating in the shower, since we must clean ourselves during our NoFap journey. Sometimes I get an erection after cleaning it, and when it happens, I clean other parts, then finish cleaning there when possible. I also have a rule of only exposing the glans twice. I mentioned the shower time but let's talk about practical stuff here.
Erections... they happen in the shower and I expect it. I clean the area a move on. I don't focus on it and bring brain fog attention to it. I keep my mind on there things since I don't have to concentrate on bathing.
Glad somebody mentioned this. I have a particular problem with shower stimulation that I described in this thread: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?posts/585575/ Feel free to skype me at "ekhangel" for this. I have vast experience with the problem, but no magic tricks and no definite victory just yet, only some long-term progress.
the easiest and best way not to jack off i the shower is to not jack off.. or touch it. Take real quick showers cold showers Tape your dick down so it cant get erection
@IggyIshness we have to touch, and properly put soap so not touching the penis is not an option. @Ekhangel, there is a "cult" going on on cold showers, but last time I checked, most people do it for a while, then give up -- specially in the winter. Let me tell you about my research and why I think you are right. Cold water stimulates blood flow, as it constricts the veins. Thus, cold showers actually increase you chances of getting an erection. Currently I take warm, relaxing baths, but maybe that's the problem: too relaxed, and the army raises during cleaning time. I am super afraid of cold water (yea judge me I'm being sincere here), so I tried a way of being in NoFap and still avoid fapping in the shower with hot water. But as @D . J . mentioned... I don't know about the effects of pouring cold water... most guys say that cold water prevents PMO in the shower so I guess I have an answer. Damn I wanted to go through this without cold water... BRRR But since I am motivated to reboot no matter what, I'll consider this option once again. PS. I live near a river, the water is super cold PS. I live near Argentina
I'm not a cold shower taker. I love my warm to hot showers but not everyone can handle that. If I should have an erection, I see that it is there and continue taking my shower. I clean the area but I don't spend too much time trying to clean in order to "accidentally" cause something to happen. It takes discipline to get to this stage so many may have to work up to this stage. If I take a relaxing bath, it is to relax. There is no ulterior motive to it. If I know that I am in a horny mood, I won't tempt myself by lying to myself and take a relaxing bath. I'll skip it and do it later. It wasn't always this way but at some point you have to stop lying to yourself and know your limits and stay within them.
This is a practical issue which should be discussed. (I have a handheld shower head which can cause me problems, which are easily imagined.) (I simply shoot it on all parts of my body, but one.) It is not necessary to rub your stuff with a bar of soap to get it clean. As you wash the rest of your body, the lather will run down over that area. The soap will do the work for you. Then, stand in the water stream, and you're done. This is how I've been washing, and I assure the world that my junk is clean.
It is simple as you say: "not to jack off." Your hand, your choice. Be in control. "Tape your dick down"??? It's good to see you're still with us @IggyIshness. Keep it lively!
Self control is the only option i geuss. justpretend my dick isnt there. I never relapsed in the shower before so im ndont know much. Also i jacked off in a cold shower a few years a ago i remember