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Real Libido or nothing at all ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ghost_Rider, Apr 23, 2017.

  1. Apr 23, 2017 #1
    Ghost_Rider

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    Im 51 days into nofap, and mostly all along my journey I had zero libido,
    Even if a woman stood naked infront of me I wouldnt have touched her at all.

    • But today on train, I saw a woman, she was not hot just average kinda woman, and I kept on staring at her, and In those moments I felt some motivation to touch her, no effect on my penis though, but I felt like I should touch her.

    • I never felt the need to touch a woman in years since I started pmo'ing, I remember feeling such fantasies of touching, caressing a woman when i was a teen maybe but never after that,
    • But today, for a brief moment like 2-3 seconds i wanted to touch and caress her, as if I want to explore her body. And again after 2-3 seconds , I felt zero libido again and felt no desire to touch her.

    I guess I am moving right direction , ehh?
     
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  2. Apr 23, 2017 #2
    Hungry_Shark

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    Congrats on your 51 days,
    I saw quite few posts today about guys getting libido back, as if LIBIDO GOD has gifted nofap community libido gift LMFAO.
    Yeah bro, its your real libido coming out which was hidden for all these years because of your dopamine rush, now your brain is rewiring and slowly and steadily your libido will come back.

    You see you felt libido for 2-3 secs and then its gone, its your dopamine receptors slowly getting sensitive to dopamine rush, it will get BETTER AND BETTER from here, just hang in there.

    I feel happy when my fellow fapstronauts gets cured, You are just on the verge of getting CURED,
    Now, you are on right track and its just about reaching to your destination, its all about time now,
    dont give up, or else you will derail the entire process, its just a matter of time and patience on your part and you will be cured soon. :) And yeah, regarding your question, yup this is how natural libido feels,
    but you have only seen a glimpse of a libido rainbow, the real rainbow will be seen when you get completely cured. (which you will ofcz in due course of time). Just hang in there and practice infinite patience.
     
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  3. Apr 23, 2017 #3
    strggl

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    This is a good sign. Flatline always ends. When you say she was not very hot, this mat be your conscious brain, 'deciding' based on what the media and society tells you (that beauty is anorectic blonde model). Your animal part may want something else though... Just remember conversation is usually a better start, do not go straight to touching!
     
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  4. Apr 23, 2017 #4
    Ghost_Rider

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    Thanks bro :), This is really motivating and yeah I will hang in there no matter how long it takes :)
     
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  5. Apr 23, 2017 #5
    Sans_Fear

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    It could be a blessing in disguise. Why? Because you can then concentrate on yourself, on your goals and you do not have the sirens trying to draw you closer to them. Resist the chant of sirens like Odysseus when he had to confront them on one of his exhilarating journeys.
     
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  6. Apr 23, 2017 #6
    Ghost_Rider

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    Yeah I know bro, I will start conversation as well, but at that moment i just wanted to explore her ;) :D
     
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  7. Apr 23, 2017 #7
    Ghost_Rider

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    You are right, and yeah I am focussing on other aspects of life :)
    I know, this process will take time and I am peaceful since I know I am on right track :)
     
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  8. Apr 23, 2017 #8
    Calculas

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    If NoFap will make me horney in such situation i will quit it.

    -_- i didnt liked the way you behaved in train.
     
    Calculas, Apr 23, 2017
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  9. Apr 23, 2017 #9
    Ghost_Rider

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    Staring is wrong :O
    Hey bro, i just wanted to see if I get horny or not ;) nothing against her :)
     
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  10. Apr 23, 2017 #10
    J247

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    Well you seem to be getting better, so congrats. I seem to be getting worse. No MW anymore. I'm 100% dead dick now.
     
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  11. Apr 23, 2017 #11
    Ghost_Rider

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    Bro, this is how your mind tricks you into thinking that you are no longer improving,
    you were so well few days back when I was severly suffering from my horrible withdrawal symptoms
    Its just a phase, you are healing, your brain is re-wiring, hang in there bro , :)
     
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  12. Apr 23, 2017 #12
    Calculas

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    Congratz ... Dead dick ... You dont have to worry about relapsing now... Its the time to chill and divert your mind onto other things man ... ;) I hope i reach where you are soon . :)
     
    Calculas, Apr 23, 2017
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