It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Richmond, Apr 9, 2017.

  1. Will_power_now

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    Leave your dick alone guys, don't touch it! He has been very busy in the last years, so give him a 3 week vacation!

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  2. _overcomer_

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    I really think about MO one time without P, like just one time controlled, and then continue nofap!

    Is this ok, or do I have to reset my timer then?
     
  3. Will_power_now

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    you would violate against two elements of your timer.
    1) Masturbation
    2) Orgasm
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    this is actually a NOGO
     
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  4. _overcomer_

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    O no :(

    I relapsed :(


    So now I'm completely down :(

    I was at day 11
     
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  5. You made 11 days - great! Be proud of it.
    And now you start at 0 again. That's fine. Much better than running away. Relapsing and and making a new start - that's what will make you succesful. Don't feel disappointed - you made great efforts and you don't have to make the same mistake again. Enjoy the journey!
     
  6. Kurt90

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    Don't worry. One time is not bad. Don't get down about it or you will fall into a cycle. Reset your clock and shoot for 21 days again and you WILL get there!
     
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  7. The moon

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    Day 11 of 21 day Challenge
     
  8. Alpha J.

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    Day 6 feelin great!!
     
  9. _overcomer_

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    i fell a second time :(
     
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  10. Chaser-effect. Don't worry. Soon you will be on the right track.
     
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  11. Constantine Bold

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    It takes 21 days to change one's self-image, by doing a certain kind of an activity consistently.

    If for example, you read every day, a text out loud which says "I can make people laugh", after 21 days, your personality will change into someone that makes people laugh, to a certain degree.
     
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  12. Motional support

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    You still have to remember, 21 days to break a habit but the urge is till there.
     
  13. The moon

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    Don't worry. We all had relapses. I myself had relapses after two to three days when I started. I still have urges day and night.
     
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  14. The moon

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  15. unknown_

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    I heard about this 21 day thing before and I'm willing to get it to work! Whenever I feel like I'm about to, I'll write here to keep me busy
     
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  16. _overcomer_

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  17. Alpha J.

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    Day 7 lets gooo!!!
     
  18. mario48

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    Day 21 !!! But urges still in there, and flatline. But I feel like I'm hating porn now
     
  19. Alpha J.

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    Aw crap relapsed today.. Well at least i know im not falling for the same cheap tricks again.. Lets go guys.. 3 weeks to go!!
     
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  20. The moon

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    Relapsed.
    Day 1 now.
    Can't bitch about spoiled milk other than learning from it.