Get a reboot, then a prostitute.

very strong words tombuktu.

 

I hope it did not come out wrong. Certainly, do not want to cast the first stone. Am as guilty as anyone. I lost a close cousin who died at age 29 of HIV because of proposition. Although she was free to choose her lifestyle, none of us in the family was proud of that lifestyle and I don't think any family would. Still have another cousin in the trade, unfortunately. Maybe this is personal. I hope not

 

that for sure didnt come out wrong.

knowing the right is one thing - doing the right is one thing.

once you moved into this swamp it is hard to get out.

 

dating gets expensive, so use the money for courting women. prostitute would be bad for reboot. dating would not, and you can still be motivated by that!

 

I paid 40 for the lap dance, 0 for the sex

 

Yes I did pay 40 for the lap dance. And I was there by myself so no friend could have paid. She started making out with me during the dance and gave me her number after and said she really liked me and wanted to get together after work and just hang out, not have sex.

well we did and we started drinking a little and we ended up having sex lol. she's texted me a couple times since but I'm in no place to be dating a stripper lol. Also I have no Gf right now.

nothing to be proud of, just clarifying. the point of my post anyways was thatthe sex with the stripper did nothing to fulfill me, just made me feel shame and guilt.

 

Appreciate your honesty man! It helps a lot for people like us to know via second hand experiences such as these as to what venturing into the world of hookers/strippers would be like.
I too, having no gf, sometimes contemplate of going down that path. I have even checked websites and gotten numbers of escorts. But something inside prevented from taking me further steps.I guess it was for the better.
I hope that this process of rebooting would eventually make our lives fulfilling so that we dont bother to think about these sort of traps.

 

It's a bad idea and is just another way of sexually objectifying a woman.

 

Not good.

You'll start thiking on your future sex everyday. You can even fap for you imagination.

Even if you're not religious or something - remeber - the point is never real sex, but DOPAMINE cycle.

 

Totally agree with previous comments answering your question Flipflops. I realize one of your sexual desires is being like a porn performer as most of us have thought sometime. The fact is that orgasm won't be great. The solitude sensation you'll feel after that doesn't compensate your effort or the money spent. The other thing you must think is that the girl you'll choose is moving her body for money, and even if she is stiff like a tree she will receive that money for her work. What I mean is that she won't effort to satisfy you because she's not being satisfied at the same time. Do not idealize it. You can try it but it's not a good reward for stop viewing porn.

What do you think?

Take care!

 

This thread on this subject will never come to a consensus.

In a thread like this where we have people of different ages, experiences, social and economic backgrounds, from around the the world - talking about something as old (it is the oldest profession) and as prostitution with different kinds of escorts, brothels, street workers, junkie whores, just straight out workers, high class hookers.... there's even ones that will fulfill kinky desires - in some countries they are regulated and in good order - in others totally unregulated and terrible.

Generally speaking there is no answer to this.

and there's actually no right and no wrong.

the puritans that say 'no to prostitution it is evil, or it's soulless or whatever they want to say' are right when some guy is going to some junkie whore and it's just physical relief with the added complications of possible STDs.

The sex fiend that's looking for a relief that might stop him from becoming a sex offender - well that's another story...

For the occasional user who goes to clean professional places, where the girls are there because they want to be there... that's up to him and the escort.

For the guy that asked 'would I be happy if my daughter was working as an escort?', my answer is 'no I would not want that and I hope I would provide a good enough home that would not happen'.

And if she did and she clearly explained to me, that is her decision and she wants to do this, and she understands what she is doing. I would still not like it but I would have to accept it.

On the other hand, if drugs, and bad people were the reason, well, I would help her get out and I wouldn't be so understanding towards them - I'd deal with that differently, very differently.

Anyway, last comment to Brazilian Flip-Flops, who started this thread. Man, if having a goal and a reward works for you - so long as no one is being hurt or exploited in the process - and you don't replace one addiction for another - good luck.

That's all i'm going to say about this subject it goes on forever.

 

I'm glad I read this thread. I was planning to hook up with a legit porn star after my 90 days as a way to celebrate.

 

If there's money involved, its fake and fleeting. Porn and prostitution are the same in this regard.

Personally, I think this is different than one night stands. At least that girl is intersted in you and not your money, even if it is only for one night.

Ideally, one recurring sexual partner is the best, whether its romantic or not.

Don't use money, or pixels, for sex. Its unhealthy and it shows you're still a slave to the orgasm, especially if that's the only reason you're going clean.

Stay clean, and girls will be interested in you, and not your wallet.

 

Yeah, I might cry. This whole thread is incredibly depressing. Even the fact that prostitution exists is depressing. There would be no supply without demand. Unbridled sexual desire has lead to So. Much. Pain.

Between this post and a certain other past thread, coupled with your attitude... You have serious problems Brazilian Flip flops, whether you admit it or not.

But you know what? Do it. See where it gets you. If you end up getting a long streak with this method I'll eat my hat. It's the path of weakness.

 

Brazilian_flipflops, your comment should be deleted for insulting other fapstronauts. You are way out of line calling someone a "faggot." If you post a thread asking other people's opinion of your idea, you should be prepared to get different points of view, and respond to them accordingly with respect and an open mind, not hate. Abel, come hither.

Also, there's a difference between being attracted to women and objectifying them, dude.

 

Actually Brazilian_flipflops, the entire point of being human is controlling our biological impulses for good, not to simply be a pre-programmed robot that does whatever our DNA tells us to do. If we are to go from female to female looking for a different woman each day with the most outstanding sexual organs to put our genes into, what makes us any different than the unreasoning animals? Animals reproduce, move on and forget.

The beauty of being human is that we can go against our biological impulses to control ourselves and put our energy to work to accomplish great things during our lifetimes. We can maintain lifelong relationships based on the kind of selfless love that lasts forever. Don't throw your human existence away by following your animalistic tendencies, or your life will be as purposeless as the beasts of the field.

 

Not cool, bro. This is totally against the spirit of this place,in which people reflect on other people's opinions and choose the best thing. Moderators please look into this.