Post published by gcamt123
23 years old guy here
Started PMO when I was in 7th. No girls in social circle (as in best friends, girlfriend). Girls from my batch in undergrad found me weird. I have an awesome set of friends, none of whom faced this, and they are still in touch with girls from college.
Currently in post grad. Situation has improved somewhat. I can talk to girls, but I am no where near to be a boyfriend material.
I guess my motivation for NoFap is pretty clear here. (Get in a relationship, get laid)
I am not socially awkward in any way with mixed group. But with girls, I find it really hard to talk. Hope nofap helps with this
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quit@porn
It will boost ur confidence........ You will get help.... But biggest problem with us( in initially case with my case also) we just want to get laid and we act as underdog.... But I can tell u now, best way to get together with girl is not to chase her but to be with her.... All other things that we want fall in line... Mostly..... Our lust is generally grasped by girls..... So u are here is very good.... But strive for ultimate not for small things... Best luck brother
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gcamt123
I don't even know where I will find a girl now
I do not feel that way about any one from my class. With my studies, I hardly have anytime left to go out. Is dating/cold approach to girls on streets a thing in India?
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quit@porn
Have faith.... Girls are humans with emotion... Just be a good person.. U will automatically get one... Just have faith
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Avin Boy
See if your final motive is to get laid then its quite difficult to even talk to girls mainly 2 possibilities:
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Avin Boy
2 possiblities will be - 1. Performance pressure - you will always over react when ever you'l talk to a girl in seek to be more friendly with them in less time 2. Fear to loose them - you'l always have fear that with this much of difficulty I found one to interact with that i cannot afford to loose.
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