Recent content by jetscooled

I think there are some things in life that you dont need to experience in order to know what feeling youd anticipate. Do you not know whether or not youd be happy if someone walked up to you and gave you a million dollars? How about if they shot you in the face? you dont know whether or not youd...

After reading this post, truly do want to say thank you for writing this. Sexuality is arguably the hardest thing for men to talk about to each other let alone what we are going through as men on this site. Its amazing once you step outside your comfort zone and embrace the fear of being judged...

Hello, This is actually a much more common problem than you think. This is a typical case of densensitization for sex addicts. What once became an exciting and fufilling activity no longer does the trick. Now that normal sex doesnt do the trick, you need to go to a more extreme level in order to...

I think you are definitely in the right direction. I wouldnt worry about the girlfriend just yet. Focus on your life. Think about it this way, if you arent even happy with yourself and your life what would make someone else happy with it? Your partner should be an awesome supplement to your life...

So I am finally going away for the weekend with this girl Ive been talking to and I know were going to have sex. Im nervous about having an orgasm because Ive been doing so good on my nofap journey. Ive had a wet dream twice so far on my journey and both times I felt like shit for 2-3 weeks...

Sorry to hear that man. Just letting you know that youre situation is DEFINITELY normal for people recovering from sexual addiction. There is a distinct difference between wanting to have an orgasm because youre tired of feeling like shit from withdrawl and genuinely having enough organic sexual...

I know it doesnt help, but you have to stay strong. If you are feeling lost, look into sex addiction and create a tool set that will help you through this. Lots of men find themselves when they embark on this journey. Recovery is a lot about finding yourself and the real person you are. My...

Just remember that the beginning is the hardest battle. Throughout responses ive posted on here i related beating this to putting a fire out. when you arrive to the scene of a fire, no ones first instinct is to figure out what caused it, its to put that damn fire out! In other words, in the very...

Hi, this is a case of desensitization. The normal case most men have is they fantasize about being the guy that is with all the girls in the porn they are watching or they usually find a dominant man in the gay porn world to admire. I think you are mistaking your lust for these men as a desire...

Hi, This is a classic case of densensitization. What used to turn you on no longer does the trick. Im sure youve heard that addicts build up tolerences and require more and more to get the same high. No exception with is sex addicts. It is not uncommon to all of a sudden have an attraction to a...

Hi, Just wanted to chime in. Your body is used to shooting and will find creative ways to keep it going. Once our minds are locked in on "sex addict" mode, releasing becomes high up on list, right up there with breathing and eating. It is our addictions way of giving it one last chance to...

Thats fantastic news! I'm glad we have another good strong man deciding to change for the better. Its important to realize that your urges are just a facade masking something in your life. Addiction is developed as a solution to hidden problems. Once we see addiction is not the answer it is...

This sounds like a classic sign of destructive behavior that makes up your sex addiction. This should be avoided at all costs when possible. Any action that is unwanted but cannot be stopped is part of your addiction. Please get rid of all apps and email accounts you use and put a blocker on...

littlekegger I completely agree. This is about learning a new lifestyle and making choices that will last. I think if it helps people in the beginning and builds some confidence for people to push forward then good for them. However, just like a diet, this is about a lifestyle change. No point...

This is going to have go get some honest answers. Most likely his masturbation habbit has been going on for longer than your relationship. often times people who have this kind of issue needs a solid break from all sexual things for a period of time. This includes even having an orgasm with a...