Monk85

I am a writer, a very deep thinker, and I am fairly new to NoFap, I came because I want to eliminate masturbation and pornography from my life and I am trying to do it in a gradual way, I try to avoid the porn and lately I try to masturbate less, there's been some good days, some bad, I try to set goals, I'm happily married and my wife doesn't see what the big deal is and thinks masturbation is okay but I feel as a married man I should just be having a healthy sexual relationship with my wife that does not include masturbation and porn, I do not buy into all the stuff ''professionals'' and the media says about masturbation, I believe all this information is nothing more than cigarette science and it's a false sense of freedom that we are constantly being sold out to and I believe there are many reasons for it but one thing that I find is sad is that the porno and sex toy and ''adult store'' industries make millions off of this, I believe a reboot as NoFap calls it is a great idea and I would hope some re education would be in order, we need to learn to question these supposed ''facts'' that are being constantly forced down our throats about masturbation, they tell us to trust it, I believe we should not trust it and hate it and re educate ourselves, I know I got a long road ahead of me but I welcome all support and suggestions, I also welcome anyone who is interested in having a good dialogue about the matter and maybe we could think up things together to not only help ourselves but to also ways to educate ourselves and to refute what is being forced upon us by society and their fake freedom system.