I smoked when I was younger and was around loads of people who smoked to varying degrees. I can’t think of a single person who was made a better person for it. Far more often it truly was “a gateway drug” to other things. I used to laugh at that line but now believe it has some validity...
Firstly, what is the rubber band trick??
If your life is stressful right now it is quite natural to have difficulty concentrating. For me to get into a book I have to set aside time to read. I give myself at least an hour. And a brief history of time is a rather heavy (though accessible for...
You say ‘I find myself drifting or distant’...
I think herein lies the issue. If I were drifting or distant during sex i would probably have an issue too. So, why are you drifting or distant? Is it possible you’re not ready for this relationship and are using it for sex? If so your...