Recent content by WantToBeAMan

Go to yourbrainonporn.com and read the book, it has a lot of insight into this. And yes, abstaining from PMO (porn/masturbation/orgasm) will make all of the difference. Read the success stories here, and I can vouch for it personally. And this even though my PMO habit was not too bad (only about...

I sent to SLAA for a few years and got quite a lot out of it, but then stepped away for some of the reasons you describe (but I was able to recover quite a bit from many of my addictive behaviors). Of course some groups are better than others, and it's all about the people. It's also about how...

Thanks for your reply. I suggest though that you remove the pictures, as there is technology which can match the pictures of people to their real names, which I'm sure it not what you intend. You sound like you are on the right track, and I wish you all the best. I look forward to hearing about...

I have previously been married (more than once -- and for over 10 years each time). I have always had a PMO problem, and as well other problems beyond that involving cheating. I have worked very hard on these issues and am finally (and successfully) tackling the PMO issues. I have read lots of...

Having not been someone that has had those particular problems, I can't say from personal experience. However, there are many, many people who have successfully recovered from all manner of addictions: drugs, alcohol, PMO, sex, gambling, etc, never to act out again. So I don't see why this...

Thank you for your post. I don't know your situation, but I feel that I must comment on this particular statement. Certainly PMO can be a gateway to things beyond PMO that involve others in real life. Your brain gets jacked up and you want more and more. I have experienced this myself and...

I have been a wanker and used porn nearly all of my life. I have been in marriages where I did this exact thing. I advise you to take care of yourself and to not put up with it. This is as damaging to him as it is to you. And it's no less harmful than cheating, since is devoting his intimate and...

Good for you. Please keep reading here about other people's stories. And read about the benefits of stepping away from P. Read about triggers. Go over to Your Brain on Porn and read those materials. There is a lot to learn about how to effectively step away from this. The benefits though are...

Being here and abstaining has helped me so much.

(Sorry for the length) I'm in my mid-50's and have been fapping since I was 12. I had signed up about a year ago and did nothing with it. I have had problems in my previous marriages about cheating; but mostly not real affairs, just around the edges, and remote things like phone sex and...

Thanks for the encouragement, I will be back tomorrow with hopefully one day.

Thanks for your reply on my newbie thread and your inspiring story! I look forward to the results I will see. TS

I'm in my mid-50's and have been fapping since I was 12. I had signed up about a year ago and did nothing with it. I have had problems in my previous marriages about cheating; but mostly not real affairs, just around the edges, and remote things like phone sex and texting (however sometimes...