Ghost writer can critique my new lifestyle changes and nofap progress whenever he likes. The issue a lot of us suffer from is that we don't want to hear what our problems are. I'm moving past that point to the point of validating what I'm hearing from others and finding ways to implement strategies that are offered to me.
I think her point was that the more a man fills his mind with images of other beautiful women, no matter how the man defines beautiful, it will eventually make him feel less attracted to his wife.
