First of all, its a great site. I have been trying to stop masturbating for a long time, and i haven't seen something as motivating as this website. I am a 17 year old 'normal' guy struggling with my bouncing hormones. My urges are at peak at nighttime. Fapping helped me feel relaxed and sleep but somehow I just got partially addicted to it and now i feel a lot worse after fapping. I have heard of problems associated with it, and swore every night to stop doing it but somehow i could not. I fight, I fap, and then justify myself. This cycle keeps on repeating. I hope I win against my hormones and start fresh. Happy to join this awesome 'fapstronauts' community. BDW this is my first post..
Hi mate, what you fighting for? Make love not war! http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthread.php?2655-The-Way-of-Harmony http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthre...-Peace-OR-The-Soft-Bulletin&p=27407#post27407
I agree, with fighting you won't succeed. Observe it what happens, with a sort of curiosity. It's hard to explain, but the more you fight, the harder it is. If it feels difficult and painful a moment, just accept that it's how it is right now.
Jiltedjohn, I read both of your posts and I am actually pretty impressed. I have never thought in this way and now I believe this is a better way out. Thanks a lot for the reply.. By the way, good luck with your goal, I see you are quite close to completing it.
