As I approach nine months without porn, fap, or sex of any kind, I want to contribute this thought to the philosophy of what we do: A man's seed is (at least figuratively) his willpower, his confidence, his motivation, his peace of mind, his sense of masculinity, his respect from self and others, his self-improvement, his success, etc. Why would he rub all of that out the end of his penis and flush it down the toilet in exchange for a moment of pleasure followed by regret? Hold it inside and resorb it! I have learned that our minds and bodies can adapt to greatly reduced amounts of sexual gratification (including none), and still be just as happy, if not more so. The only reason that all men don't already know this is that we haven't tried it long enough.
even with finding and keeping a quality friendship, or marrage with a loved one, and to have a family, what better resone to NoFap!!!!!
Flowing is correct, of course, about how difficult it is to stop fapping; but each man is ultimately in charge of his own body. Nobody holds us down and faps us! There is only one way to establish a fap-free lifestyle. The would-be non-fapper must first decide that he wants to stop fapping more than he wants to fap. Then, he must bite the bullet and stop looking at trash and rubbing himself for long enough for his willpower to accumulate and fuel the rest of his journey. This takes a drastic departure from the psychosexual comfort zone, and it requires as much extrinsic help and support as possible; but it can be done. It's one of the most awesome things a man can do, and it must be experienced to be believed.
No, I haven't read the texts themselves, but I've read about both tantric and Taoist sexuality for years. Through my long-term practice of no-PMO, I have realized how accurate some of those ideas are.
Yes, but I prefer the avoidance of sexual functions rather than the obstruction of ejaculation during sexual functions.
I agree....like the philosophy...our sperm is life....if we are not sharing that with a partner....why waste it?
Looks like I can learn a lot from you I'll gonna check your previous posts, I already saw you wrote some great tips. Thank you
Ok....I am counting the amount of semen that I save each day....oh...let's say one ounce per day for 32 days....that's 32 ounces so far....it has to go somewhere, or does your body quit producing it?...does this hurt anything....I know that cows have to be milked twice daily.....I'm sure that is totally different though...
All this sounds good , but when wake up or try to fall asleep its hell not to enjoy yourself if for a while , the reason we exist is due to sex , we're hardwired . Sometimes i wish i could go back to the age of 10 when all i cared about was baseball & swimming and riding my bike . Then puberty came along , i'll keep trying .
Good good....it all has to be good....no down side to semen retention....mr happy is healing....must leave him alone...and I'm sure that mr happy is glad that I no longer try to strangle him and hurt him....he was not made for that kind of abuse...he wants to be in a nice warm place where he feels welcome and relaxed...I need to remember that...porn sucks...it teaches us all of the wrong things about sex...
