yeah so a few weeks ago me and my brother were just having banter and then we started going on about dick size and we compared. His length and girth is like 3x better then mine. In other words (you might laugh) my penis is like a baby carrot and his is a full grown one. This is a struggle. Even if I cut out PMO my dick size won't change. What would my future partner think? Will I be good enough? Will I pleasure her too? This is crushing my confidence or what's left of it. Comments would be great
There's this ex-pornstar who started a YouTube channel and just talks about random stuff. She's really smart and articulate. Her videos are just stories and observations, typical YouTube banter. She did one about penis size and said in her experience 98% of all penises in the world are just fine as they are. That elephantitis dongs you see in pornos are a far deviation from the norm and uncomfortable for most women, and that a lot of guys are insecure about nothing. So unless you have a medically diagnosed micro-penis, I wouldn't really worry about it.
One of my biggest worries too. But the baby carrot thing.. Anyway though...if your partner ever brings up the small dick thing just ask her between the small yellow banana and the big plantains, which one is sweeter than the other? Hehe Though I have never had sex yet...I think sex is all about screwing her mind before her loins.
To the O.P., being a Bi.M., I've seen MANY guys erect without their pants on. Some are above, "average", and some, "below", average. And what I've learned in my life is that as long as a dude enjoys his orgasm then it's all good! Do you enjoy blowing your nut alone? If not see a Ph.D. If you do then just finding a woman who cares for you ABOVE the waist is key. There a so many ways to please a woman if you're "below" average!!! Don't forget you have a mouth and fingers too! This reads much more like you need to just find the right woman and not about what sounds like you're chasing a one night stand. And never forget, porn is a FANTASY and that we NEVER see average or below average dudes in vids for a reason. They don't sell. Your Bro may be above average but is he a better lover? Have you followed him into the bedroom too? When you get to the right point in life, with the right woman, there are vids online that provide sexual positions for dudes with smaller erections. Keep the focus on why were here friend, P.M.O.! In 90, 120, 365 days find that right woman and make it special....
Haha I don't think my brother has had sex and he's 18 but yeah I assume he would be able to pleasure a girl better then me. Which kinda destroys me
You might be nameless, but you are not dickless! In fact, your penis can still grow over the next couple of years even if other aspects of puberty have ceased. Were you serious that his length and girth are three times bigger than yours. That doesn't sound right, especially not girth. I suggest you ask for a recount, lol.
That's understandable. You exaggerated the comparison because that is the psychological effect of seeing a bigger dick than yours. I assume that in making your comparison you were both fully erect. Otherwise, comparison is pointless. Some guys can have what looks like a micropenis (under 2¾ inches) when soft, yet grow to above average length when hard as a rock.
i didnt compare when erect thats just. ugh too wierd. *hey bro want to get rock solid and compare? yeeee* i wonder if you laughed at this im laughing right now i think afew weeks ago we compared when erect. i did have to look at porn to get erect. but yeah his was bigger then mine. or maybe its my memory playing a trick. i cant remember too well i mean come on. who wants to remember a penis all too well?
LMFAO! Yeah, you got me going dude! "Hey bro, wanna do the dick test again?" There you go - you are not even sure now! The realistic part of all this is your length and girth, not your brother's. If you go to this site, you will see how to measure properly, too. Spoiler https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size Good luck pal!
Male self-perception Males may quite easily underestimate the size of their own penis relative to that of others, because of the foreshortening obtained from looking down, due to repeated observation of atypical penises in pornography, or because of the accumulation of fat at the base of the penis. A survey by sexologists showed that many men who believed that their penis was of inadequate size had average-sized penises. Another study found sex education of standard penile measurements to be helpful and relieving for patients concerned about small penis size, most of whom had incorrect beliefs of what is considered medically normal. The perception of having a large penis is linked to higher self-esteem. Spoiler https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size#Male_self-perception
If your partner leaves you because you have a small penis then she never truly loved you. You can still be good at sex without a big penis. If a penis is too big it actually hurts women and doesn't make good sex at all. The most sensitive part of a female is not inside the vagina, but its the clitoris, and there are many other ways to make your partner like having sex with you, such as being good at setting the mood, good at foreplay and stuff. Buy a hitachi magic wand and put that on your girlfriends clitoris, it will drive her crazy. Penis size really doesn't matter unless you just want to do normal boring penetration sex and you don't care about pleasing your partner.