Hi everyone. I'm on Day 29 of 30 today and I have experienced a lot of benefits - especially with health. Better skin, less fatigue, more confidence, etc. I have been experiencing something weird socially lately: I used to look at women in public with longing eyes - staring at them like some sort of pervert. But lately I have stopped completely (which is a great success) and I now "bounce" my eyes away and focus elsewhere. The weird thing is that I almost have a disgust / disdain towards women now when I see them, especially those that dress to draw attention. It might be due to unresolved issues because this goes against everything in my reboot and ogling / staring was one of the main weaknesses I struggled with. What are your thoughts? Has anyone else experienced this disdain (noun 1. the feeling that someone or something is unworthy of one's consideration or respect)?? I don't want to become nasty or be seen as unkind or rude when passing by a women or when a woman talks to me / smiles at me.
Staring is in fact considered rude. Maybe in some foreign cultures looking at a woman with longing eyes is interpreted as a compliment and could even lead to a conversation - which could lead to a relationship. If you, like me, live in a rich, developed country, this is probably not the case. You might even get in trouble if you do that in a leftist place like California. There is nothing wrong with disliking womens' clothing. The way they dress today would have been scandalous a few decades back, and being hungry for attention is not a positive character trait. I don't pay much attention to half-naked women. I couldn't get my eyes off them when I was a teen, but now I am just annoyed. They suck off all the attention from horny guys and would not consider dating most of them anyway.
I definitely agree that it is rude to stare. It's not so much about now not staring at women with provocative clothes, I generally have a disdain against attractive women in general, which is the reason for this post. It's like I walk past a pretty lady and I'm like "urgh".