I can totally relate to ur situation mate, the same goes on with me and my fiancé. Sadly I can't answer ur question yet, I'm trying to cope with it and test myself which tool can by useful for me. All I get so far that everybody is different, there is not a magic technique for everyone. I've read that and feel that penis will be desensitized if u stay away of PMO. This could be a reason to last longer in bed. I've been practicing kegel exercise and it has it benefits too, but not seem to be the only solution for me. People say divert ur mind when doin it but it is kind of awkward to me, seems like u not even there. So I think u should try things educate urself about the methods and be patient, I believe some tools will work for us.
I have not experienced PE, but 60 days is not long enough for a reboot. Ninety days is a reasonable standard, however a full reboot can take anywhere from 3 to 9 months. As for the stamina problem, most people in (usually monogamous) relationships report of great benefits of practicing karezza. It's like the sex version of edging.
Yeah I've tried the kegels but I'm starting to think I've done too many and should have been doing reverse ones instead. Seems like my pelvic floor is very tense.. But that's a different issue completely. And I agree with you, diverting your mind takes you away from the situation and I don't like it, and it doesn't work anyways for me. I just end up finishing anyways but instead of thinking about my wife and what I'm doing I'm thinking about eating dinner... No good. So I guess it's like you said, no magic solution so the only thing left to do is to trust the rebooting process and see how it works out. Before my PE had gotten out of hand like it is now I was able to make it better by edging a lot. It seemed to help, now obviously that's a no go during a reboot but I'm hoping it could be modified so that while having sex with your SO you can train your stamina. You're right and considering Ive been PMO'ing for 15 years it's guaranteed that 60 days is enough. Like probably need at least a year! And I've been seeing that Karezza a lot but have no idea what it is other than sex without the O.. Il give it a quick google, thanks!
Have you tried that nimmimg spray you can buy it at walmart/Walgreens etc. You spray the head of your penis it works well unless, you spray to much