Will be on a business trip next week in the Far East so very challenging for PMO abstinence- too much private time. But also great opportunity to have a good and traditional massage - should I ? Or is this a bad idea (not intending to have one with a 'happy ending)
Hey @Dutchdad I think you know the answer to this question. I cant advise any behaviour that might be a trigger. When I visited Bangkok with my wife she wanted to see Patpong and I was resisting the idea vigorously (for obvious reasons). In the end we drove through in a taxi and then went straight back to our hotel...narrow escape
Well thats why I asked for opinions. Because it might be too hard to resist an O by some skilful hands...
I'm no expert,just an old guy that likes sex.I'm tying to quit porn and MO so,I can have good sex with my GF. But I wouldn't turn down a full service massage if the opportunity arose.Just be careful off the chaser affect.
I travel alot myself and will also be on the road next week. My set of circumstances are similar in that the down time in a room by myself is difficult and I really need to keep my recovery at the forefront every minute. I dont know how the massage enters into it unless you think its going to make you more horny than relaxed. It sounds like an excellent opportunity to really be mindful of not putting anything on it while its happening. In the end if your worried that you wont be able to manage it safely, I would advise to skip it.
Exactly my point. Private downtime is killing. Fortunenately I'll be in China too so no tempateion to watch P....
Sounds like rationalizing a relapse in my opinion. I've done it many times. If you need something to do visit a Buddhist temple that does guided meditation. Stay away from the lady boys.
you're right my friend. The buddhist temple one is a great idea! I'll definitely try to find that. Will have a weekend in HongKong, should be able to find something?
Why not? Massage is useful not only for the body, but also for the soul. Somehow I was lucky to get into a Kiev massage parlor, and there they offered me an erotic massage session (I'm sure, in the place where your business trip will take place, such services are provided). Erotic massage sunk into my soul! Now this is my favorite type of massage. So do not give up the pleasure!
I recently had a normal legit massage and had an unintentional (embarrassing) O from the massage. Had my boxers on and the place was a legit massage place. You can see my post in my journal. So, I would say, don't do it