40 days and a question

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by davee, Aug 25, 2017.

  1. davee

    davee Fapstronaut

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    Hello,

    I have hit my day 40. The urges are actually killing me, it is almost funny. It is like my dick is begging me to take the load :D But Ill not relapse.

    My question is would it be fine to have sex, I have started dating and it goes quite well. But I feel like it would be better to not have sex at all.
     
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  2. Awakening123

    Awakening123 Fapstronaut

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    Sex will make it worse man. You will binge from chaser if you orgasm in any form now. Dip your penis and balls in ice cold water if the boner doesn't go away.
     
  3. davee

    davee Fapstronaut

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    I guess you are right, and Ill not do it. I fear spoiling my progress, because there are improvements in my live already after 42 days.
     
  4. Casper0n

    Casper0n Fapstronaut

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    I've read arguments on both ends. Many feel that sex during a reboot is actually good if you're trying to rewire to experiences with a real partner. Others feel that it can delay a process that a full hard reboot would handle more quickly. I tend to believe the former, provided you don't succumb to the chaser effect.
     
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