Be very careful of some members!!

My first day on this site and already a guy is asking me to masturbate with him. Then we can start new tomorrow? I'm gay and it's very inviting but not why I came here.. any suggestions? Don't want to mention his name because I know we all struggle. But aren't we supposed to support each other to not give in?

I need real accountability partners!!

 

The world is a strange thing,right?the Guy wanted to relapse,justify it,And even make you relapse too!strange How there are bad influences in every social media or envrionment,but i guess thats human nature.just be carefull with who you choose to be your partner.
(msg me If you want)

 

Report him! That is totally completely against the rules. If you report his name and send screen shots of the messages to a staff member, they will take care of it how they see fit. I understand you might not want to get him in trouble, but some other members might not be as strong as you to resist that, and he's preying on easy victims, which is despicable. I don't care if he's struggling too, he doesn't deserve to be here if he's going to do crap like that. That's my two cents.

 

Report it to the moderators. That behavior is dangerous, unhealthy, and predatory when you think about it.

 

If you're looking for real accountability, I'm sure you'll be able to find that here. If you're gay, perhaps a female AP would be best. Preferably someone who is interested in women, or maybe one of the wives here who don't struggle with porn themselves. I don't know, just trying to think of the best situation with the least amount of temptation.

 

Woo! I've never experienced that here. Don't know why anyone would join this site and say crap like that. Seriously join a porn forum if you want that. It's unacceptable! I mean I struggle but I would never think of messaging crap like that. Best to read a posters posts before messaging them, that way you'll get a sense of what kind of person they are. But I think accountability groups are better than one on one. I mean one on one are better than nothing but groups aren't depending on one person. I believe there's several WhatsApp groups and I'm a part of Kik group.

 

Thank you so very much! I really appreciate your kind words!!

 

Please report his message to you. I know you feel bad for him and want to preserve his anonymity, but what's to say he hasn't messaged another 20 people doing the same thing? By reporting him, the moderators/admins can decide whether the offence is serious enough to take him off the site, or whether it is just a mistake that he needs to be warned not to repeat. Let them decide, after all, that's what they do.

I've thankfully never had such a message here, although I have had some funny ones, including someone claiming to be a messenger of God. Some of them make for a good chuckle.

 

I reported him and he's no longer here anymore!! I don't feel bad either

 

Nobody should be subjected to that behavior, we strive for a safe place here. There's absolutely nothing wrong with reporting this kind of activity and we encourage all users to do so.

 

Strangely enough, even as a woman, I never experienced hardly anything like that when I was here before, and I was here for a long time. So definitely don't lose hope, most people here aren't bad