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Wanting it vs trigger

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Sep 4, 2017.

  1. Sep 4, 2017 #1
    Deleted Account

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    Ive been binging lately, to some brand new fetish but I'm not really attracted to it. I would never want that to happen and it's unrealistic for me.

    I already have a fetish and I'm trying to get out of it. My 2 relapes this morning, practically back to back. I do them bc I want to feel aroused, and not bc I accidentally saw a trigger of some kind.

    What does this assume?

    Side note, these fetishes are not something I would do and have happen to me irl. When I look at girls in everyday life I don't imagine this happening w them.
     
    Deleted Account, Sep 4, 2017
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  2. Sep 4, 2017 #2
    Deleted Account

    Deleted Account Guest

    Edit: Maybe the first, original, fetish I would imagine happening in the past. But since greatly reducing PMO/MO I don't really. I'm still into it but not in real life when just talking with girls.

    The newest one I would not, still.
     
    Deleted Account, Sep 4, 2017
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  3. Sep 4, 2017 #3
    Exponential Power

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    You crave the dopamine high. It's an addiction.
     
    Exponential Power, Sep 4, 2017
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  4. Sep 4, 2017 #4
    crispy

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    It's nothing special, we're all victims to the spiral of descending porn and fetishes. Your relapses are directly from you caving into a weakness and your apparent lack of willpower. If you truly believe in nofap and rebooting, you won't let it happen again. It's literally just a test of your will. Prove to yourself that you're not weak and can overcome a difficult obstacle. You can do it. We all can.
     
    crispy, Sep 4, 2017
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  5. Sep 4, 2017 #5
    Eviledging

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    What fetish did u suddenly discover while working on ur current one? Are they tied together where they can be worked on in the same way?
     
    Eviledging, Sep 4, 2017
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  6. Sep 5, 2017 #6
    Deleted Account

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    Yes and no, both bdsm. The first one was a type of dominant role and the newest one was a type of submissive role I guess, which doesn't really fit me at all. I'm trying to get rid of both. Nofap caused the second one though
     
    Deleted Account, Sep 5, 2017
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