She thinks I'm being silly and I should watch porn if I want. (I'd never been lying to her about my porn use, we are very open with each other.) I'm not going to - I've made up my mind to do this as an investment in my future - but it's good to know that she doesn't feel there's any problem and isn't pressuring me. This is my choice and it feels good to know that I'm doing this for my own reasons, not being made to do it.
We're going to start trying for kids soon. I want to make sure I am ready to go, not wasting it on porn. I also want to be able to set a good example to my kids.
Does she PMO. Would she be willing to try an experiment to see how long she can go with it and then draw her own conclusions?