Frustrated but grateful

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by grdnpnd, Oct 23, 2017.

  1. grdnpnd

    grdnpnd Fapstronaut

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    Day 83. No pmf. Rebooting with partner. Flatine since day one. The darn flatline continues to this day. Grateful for the changes I've made physically and mentally but I really want to get out of this flatline. Barely half staff for any sexually activity though I can finish. Tried cold showers, feel very alpha, work out a ton, keeping busy. Should I try a week of hard mode? Maybe too much sexual stimulation during reboot. Would appreciate some feedback and/or encouragement.
     
  2. r_ryan85

    r_ryan85 Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, I'm in pretty much a similar place. I also quit porn 82 days ago and fell into a flatline just 1.5 weeks later. But I have not had any relapses to porn. Although, I have had a few BJs from my girlfriend, and a few times I masturbated - but this has been drastically reduced compared to what I did before I decided to quit for good (usually 4 - 6 times a week and sometimes 7 days a week of masturbating whilst watching porn).

    However, I'm thinking along the same lines as you. I've decided to quit masturbation and also no sexual stimulation from my GF either (apart from the hugging and kissing). I'm going to try it for the recommended 90 days.
     
  3. grdnpnd

    grdnpnd Fapstronaut

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    Ate you getting morning wood?
     
  4. r_ryan85

    r_ryan85 Fapstronaut

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    Only a handful of times about 1/2 a month ago. I thought I was healed, but then went back into flatline.
     
  5. grdnpnd

    grdnpnd Fapstronaut

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    Yea, I have recently started getting a bit of delayed morning wood. What's the alternative. Keep on trucking!
     
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