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Extreme Urges After 33 days

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by njob93, Nov 1, 2017.

  1. Nov 1, 2017 #1
    njob93

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    I made it past the first flatline I guess!!! After 30 days I began to regain sexual desire and feeling, which I guess is an indication that the reboot is working.

    However, now my urges are basically uncontrollable. I'm getting hard everywhere I go: at work, at the gym, on the subway - it's like I'm a teenager.

    I think I'm beginning to edge because of these urges - I don't ever touch myself, but I will hang out and just focus on sexual thoughts, which I'm sure is delaying my reboot.

    Any tips on how to get through this phase, and is this a sign that I'm getting healthier?
     
    njob93, Nov 1, 2017
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  2. Nov 1, 2017 #2
    Shahil

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    I donot know to how to handle this stage.. i am getting 0.005 % of urges..thinking to self-hypnotic orgasm..is it a right?
     
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  3. Nov 1, 2017 #3
    njob93

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    I'm thinking of the no-hands orgasm too.. that's my goal when I have those thoughts. However I'm beginning to think that there's no real difference between this and traditional M... you're still wasting time hoping to make yourself O. Is this a relapse even?
     
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  4. Nov 1, 2017 #4
    Shahil

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    On the 21 october 2017 at 6:30 i had listened to one of the hypnotic orgasm audio..I was unable to O,my my penis got fully erected..i had quit before the audio was completed..and after that i had never tried again..I also think this is a relapse because O is there...
     
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  5. Nov 1, 2017 #5
    TodayBeforeTomorrow

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    I assume that from a brain chemistry stand-point, the no-hands, thought-provoked O is still causing a release of dopamine. You are just using different senses, or means, to the same end. The comparable time-waste also seems to indicate that this is indeed an indicator of relapse. The P is replaced with the mind, the M is replaced with the mind, and the O is the same, a Mind-O.
     
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  6. Nov 1, 2017 #6
    Absentsounds

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    I am right there with you. My urges are almost uncontrollable but I don't get hard or anything. I am just constantly thinking of sexual things. I have no clue if I am getting better or not
     
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  7. Nov 6, 2017 #7
    njob93

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    Update: I relapsed hard after 33 days :( such a shitty feeling...
     
    njob93, Nov 6, 2017
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  8. Nov 6, 2017 #8
    Deculids

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    You do great OP. I know the urges are strong, but we can beat it. Just get back up and start again. Please don't binge and fapping everyday like a loser. Stay strong man!
     
    Deculids, Nov 6, 2017
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