A Progressive Challenge-A different kind of challenge- all levels

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by DerNeuMann, Nov 13, 2017.

  1. basitjee

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    My urges are driving me crazy!!
     
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  2. dangerduff

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    Bollocks! Messed up again! Back to the start for me. Day 0/7.
     
  3. Day 11/12. Busy day, no time to even have urges.
     
  4. Leaveit

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  5. I'm in. My first goal is to get to day 6.
     
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  6. DerNeuMann

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    Stay calm. Remember why you want this.
     
  7. DerNeuMann

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    Sorry. I hope it passes quickly.
     
  8. DerNeuMann

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    Yes, please go back and remember that this is the hardest stage. This is the training ground for learning to get used to the urges. When you make it past this stage, you will have the strength and experience to make it further.
     
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  9. FEEL

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    Thank you, man.

    I had a dream that I entered this restaurant and,
    soon as I got out of there - all the people who worked there were killed
    and the guy who gave me service was kidnapped and tortured.
    (I saw everything in 3rd person, they were killed in a shooting incident.)
    I'm not sure if there's any meaning to that dream, I'm just writing it here since I don't have a dream journal yet.

    Besides that -
    I'm kinda freaked out that I don't get any kind of erection lately (and also no morning wood.)
    I mean, I do get blue balls whenever I see an attractive woman and also my junk looks and feels kinda different (in a good way) but it still scares me.
     
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  10. 3 out of 6. I am halfway to it! Day 5 is when I relapse so I am very scared of that day but I have new strategies after getting out of a month-long binge. Today is my birthday though so happy birthday to me!
     
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  11. DerNeuMann

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    The lack of erection is a normal sign of flatline. It will pass. All kinds of mood and dream things happen to people in flatline. It varies widely from person to person. Withdrawal from dopamine seems to hit some much harder than others. It's a good sign, though. It's the next stage that is the true training ground for getting used to urges and learning to control your response to them. The next month is where you learn to fight the compulsion. It isn't easy at all but I know you can do it.
     
  12. DerNeuMann

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    Happy Birthday! Okay, go ahead and set your next goal now so that you don't have a day where you feel like you should "treat" yourself to a victory fap. You can do this.
     
  13. DerNeuMann

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    Leo, Hope you're feeling better today.
     
  14. DerNeuMann

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    Great progress!! Almost halfway to your new goal. That's exciting! We're all behind you.
     
  15. FEEL

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    Talking about flatline -
    Today I was at the university and this girl was sitting in front of me,
    she was wearing a black skirt and black pantyhose (she's really cute by the way)
    and I just couldn't get my eyes off her. And also the smell of her hair was driving me insane. (I DIDN'T get erection)
    sorry if I sound desperate.
    At least I started to talk with the girls who study with me which is already a good start :oops:

    Thank's again, I really appreciate it.

    UPDATE:
    The emotional roller-coaster is about to strike
    time to go for a walk
     
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  16. Day 12/12. Next target 16 data.

    Quote: An informed debate leaves everybody a winner.
     
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  17. TC10

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    Average day. Tomorrow the weekend starts so I'll be extra careful.
    Be careful the coming days. You're this far, please don't mess it up.
    Where did it go wrong this time. Remember it and learn from it. Good luck with your coming streak!
     
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  19. max9292

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