TRIGGER WARNING Hey guys,I’m 18, virgin male on day 34 of no pmo. I’ve read a story of a guy who got laid with a girl and he instantly came for 30 seconds, buckets of sperm. He was on day 90. I’ve also read a story of a guy who came in a non-sexual situation. As I said I’m still virgin, I’m really into nofap but I don’t want to be in awkward situations like this. How can I deal with this?
It's shameful but this is very rare. I cum while asleep when I am in NoFap. But had it happening only 2 times in this streak. I've heard of people who cum in public situations... But I suspect they were not calm and chill, I think he had some sexual thoughts. If you reboot properly and do not think weird stuff to provoke your penis I think things will go alright.
Ok thanks for you answer, and what about cuming while having S? If i'm virgin and my future gf as well, it could be really awkward to instantly cum and to have a huge load.
Why is it awkward? Girls love it and are impressed. And the vulcano thing is only the first time. Afterwards it goes back to normal and you have regular sex.
Sex as part of a new romantic relationship is one of the central reasons why I am here, and thus I am super jealous of your progress! When the time comes to partake in this moment, you will be in much better shape than I, and I am not a virgin. Girls are super attracted to this kind of stuff, think about it: The girl will be nervous too, as all new sexual encounters are scary: did I groom correctly? how do I know if he/she likes this? The girl is going to fall in love with you and love you for being yourself ("awkward" perhaps as you defined it) and will feel comfortable knowing you feel the same way and will fall in love with her and love her for being herself ("awkward" perhaps as you defined it). That is like the best part of a new romantic relationship if you ask me (thus here I am). Think about it the other way around: Controlling for looks and all other variables, would you rather have a girl who has slept around all the time or a girl who hasn't, but rather makes sex an awesome component of a greater intimate relationship? That is what is missing in porn, too: the awkward parts of sex lol
Well from my experience, it will be okay. Recently I had sex with a girl, and when I came I was like a fucking firetruck (and I was on day 5 or something). She just said "wow that's a lot" and we laughed about it. Chill. If you stick to nofap and end up having sex, chances are you'll cum in a second and quite a lot. But there's always round two