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Important question! What to do after 90 days?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by dfox96, Apr 30, 2018.

  1. Apr 30, 2018 #1
    dfox96

    dfox96 New Fapstronaut

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    He Guys!

    I have a question! I am now on day 9 and I feel incredibly good, probably because I know I am working on this. But, I have a question. I want to achieve the 90 days. No PMO. I felt lazy, always tired and lifeless. In addition, I suffer from PIED.

    But, what now after the 90 days. What would you do? Masturbate again? Or just 'real' sex with women and never masturbate again?

    I would like to hear from you. My journey can also be followed via https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/only-90-days-daily-update.167924/#post-1430729
     
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  2. Apr 30, 2018 #2
    Rikardo

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    I had a read of your opening post to get some background.

    I can only relay my experience. I have done 90 days, and I have now started again because I was complacent after the 90 days was up. Porn takes a hold and 90 days is a good start, but I think as addicts we need to remain ultra vigilant of the dangers masturbation. It doesn't take long for the occasional one to become regular and before you know it you are back where you started.

    Personally I would recommend carrying on actively avoiding P&M after the 90 day reboot until such time as you no longer feel those urges.
     
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  3. Apr 30, 2018 #3
    freshstart111

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    My goal is to be p&m free for good. I have also had some PIED issues which i have linked to my excessive porn use. I have not set any sort of time limit (day goals) on myself but the one thing i am sure of is i wont be going back to p&m if i can help it. I recently relapsed after a decent run and know first hand how easy it is to get stuck back in a rut.

    I am pretty sure when i am fully healed i will know.,my clear goal (And we all need these or we will fail) is to be in a place where i have beaten my addiction and can have a happy settled relationship with someone knowing i will not be tempted to go behind her back and waste my time with porn.

    Hope you reach all your goals
     
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