I'm 22. Just got a girlfriend 5 months ago. Lost my virginity to her. I've been masturbating for about 8 years. We would have sex regularly, but recently I've been going flat a minute into sex. I think it's due to porn andmasturbation. Maybe I lost sensitivity.I'm starting to get sexual anxiety. I avoided sex with her last weekbecause I was afraid of not getting it up or going flat on her. Sometimes Ihave to think about other women fromInstagram while I'm having sex withher. Ugh! I've stopped masturbating and watching porn for about weeknow. I got rid of Instagram, YouTube, and Twitter. Do you guys have any advice for me? I started taking horny goat weed to amplify my libido too. Thoughts? Edit: Posted this in the other section, but didn't get any replies!
Take some rest from sex and avoid Porn and masturbation completely, it will recover soon. How can u sex regularly? Your body need some time to produce semen again.
We would have sex 3-4 rimes a week. How long should I take away from sex?? Thank you for responding man!!!
Everything will work again! At your age it won't take long. Leaving the PM alone as advised above or you will most likely continue to get worse. I had to get honest with my wife when she asked me if I was looking at porn. Unfortunately longer than most guys have been alive. This site has helped me abstain for 8 days so far and I have gotten more done than I have in a long time. The relationship with my wife improved right away and I can't really explain it. We've had a pretty messed up life for 16 months as we had to live apart. I was with my son as he went through cancer treatment and she took care of our farm. The PMO addiction grew exponentially during this time even though I have been doing PMO for a long time. I am so glad this happened as it led me to this site and a lot of knowledge about myself through information and sharing. The people here are like a human chain helping each other up a mountain. IT'S AWESOME!!! QUIT AND GET WELL!! There are some really good writers on these forums and that's a good place to be if you feel the urge. Unlike many here, you have a young lady in waiting. You two are in for good times and don't mean just sex. Best regards, Helping others helps us. Sharing is helping!
Thank you for taking out the time and writing that for me. It means a lot! I will do as you guys instructed. No masturbation, no porn, and no Instagram; will be a breeze for me. When it comes to satisfying my woman, I can adapt to anything. I pray your son beats Cancer. And I hope everything works out for you in the end! Again, thank you.
