Enjoy your abuse have some other addictions like alcohol or meth or heroin since porn is not real try those we just got pulled by a liberal who could sugar coat a died eat it and tell you it's cake. Fake people go let him fap on your face.
You are welcome it is your choice and your decision whether you like porn or not. You said (All those anti porn videos... They are uploaded for profit making) but that is wrong Ex porn star Jessie Rogers exposed the porn industri that she was working for and if you think she lies and only meant for profit than you will be wrong. PORN HARMS BUT WHO CARES RIGHT bye girl
I think you should go ahead and stop him tonight while he's watching porn on his phone and just remember it's not real it doesn't exist and you do that everyday and pretty soon he'll only want to do that but without you but that's not real right gofap yourself
She doesn't really want help she wanted pity enjoy your pity party don't even ask for advice any longer fapoff
Sorry guys. What was I thinking?! My husband knows I write here. So I can't be as free in my writings. That's why..
You have essentially told every guy on here he's going to complete waste of time and I'm not sure where to proceed I want to be unforgiving because I am a Christian man. On the other hand I can no longer enable and I can't help people that can't help themselves if you want to continue being the victim then I guess that's the path you will pick if you want to fix your relationship then you know what to do stop the pity party
The truth is this: He thinks if I'd only have high self esteem, more friends and work in the office, I wouldn't care if he watches porn or not. Couple counseling is this Friday and I think he's hoping the counselor would tell me that I am over reacting or that I should just accept the way he is... The truth is this: Yesterday I thought I can stay and influence his way of thinking... battle this monster call porn. But now I feel weak.
I think we all thought that we were speaking to a strong independent woman not one that likes to be a victim
His Battle will be tough yours is cut and dry you can't accept it in your life is fun and if you do then you're enabling him you have to look him in the eye no longer will it be acceptable in my home and I will not have sex with you nor allow you to have fill your mind with those thoughts prior to having sex with me there will be a period of abstinence you'll find out if he has a problem with it or not and if you're going to a sex therapist you make sure you talk to her before you get there
I'm Christian and haven't been in relationship *Yet* but I think there needs to be a balance of accepting their addiction and trying to help them, porn is a very awful addiction, I've been doing it for around 8 years, and recently its gotten so bad I can barely go a single day without it and sometimes it 2 to 3 times a day. Its killed me inside. Don't give up all hope. Be strong and stand firm, and don't just throw it aside and agree with him saying there's no such thing as porn addiction just to please him, you can have different opinions in relationships, don't just conform to his thinking, it takes true strength to stand firm in your beliefs and not be pushed down. Stay strong.
I'm a 56 year-old man and I am checked if I buy my wife for many years without even thinking it was a problem until we both embraced. Our problem and God and then we looked at our whole history and realize we have a problem primarily I have a problem but it is our problem if you can go at it from that particular angle and she don't play the blame game you just cannot make it acceptable any longer
Would you be okay with another woman sitting on his lap every day fondling his balls so he can get his rocks off while looking at somebody else you're okay with that right it needs to stop you need to make sure that you are strong hold firm stand your ground don't give in did you pick the therapist or did he? Is it a sex addiction therapist? If not make sure that it is change it. Do not let him manipulate you I tried to manipulate my wife in the beginning like it wasn't a big deal and I realized how much harm and how much hurt I've done 75 days hardmode pMO no touch no nudity hand holding only light kisses hugs sex is off the table until further notice. You'll find out if you have a relationship or not after that is what you have and that is how things will be until further notice we're going for 120 days to make sure we have a complete marital reboot it would be nice to have some partners I don't see any married couples doing this I think it would be a really great thing and I'd be glad to help you but you have to take your baby steps