addicted to spanking porn

I doubt more regular masturbation is what you need, if you're trying to get off spanking porn. Maybe you should try a period of NoFap first.

On spanking porn, I think what you can achieve depends on a lot of things. What got you in to spanking porn? If you're sexually really interested in spanking, and that's what got you into it, then your spanking interest won't go away easily. You'll only know by trying to reboot.

What's pretty much for sure is that if you reboot properly, your spanking thoughts will return in time to what's normal for you.

If deep down spanking still turns you on, even when porn is long behind you, then you'll need to choose either to accept it, or work on defeating it. What you decide will depend on lots of different factors. You should ask others for advice then, depending on what you want to do about it. It's no good thinking about that now.

For now you need to reboot. If your spanking interest is porn induced, it might just go away when you've left porn behind.

 

Spanking seems to me like a pretty complex topic. I have done a lot of recovery in ACA and also recovery from religion and a lot of dysfunctional families abuse their children through spanking... When I was like 15, watching P with spanking, I would not really care. (I was abused as a child but I didn't connect that memory of them being spanked to the abuse)

When I did the recovery in ACA I got 2.5 yrs without any PMO. Eventually I relapsed on the PMO but continued the ACA recovery... And I could never tolerate seeing the spanking. I also think its unhealthy how the women pretend to like it when sometimes it is very harsh. So I don't believe that corporal punishment/sadism/masochism should be a part of sexuality. I think it comes from abuse and trauma and neglect in early life but people live these fantasies, identified with that as their "sexual preference".

I know if a woman ever asks me to spank her I will say, "No, sorry, I can't do that." I will rub her bottom gently but not inflict pain on her. I think most people who haven't done some kind of recovery from child hood trauma, but who think spanking in bedroom is OK, are just unaware that they are re-enacting child-hood trauma. It keeps them from having to face the original childhood traumas by re-enacting it in the present.

 

We're all entitled to our opinions, and I'm not interested in having an argument. This place is about all of us supporting each other in giving up porn and beating sex addiction.

But if we're not into something and have never done it, then we probably don't know enough about it to say where it comes from and what it's about. Straight people aren't in a position to say what gay sex is about, men can't explain lesbian sexuality, and so on.

If you don't think corporal punishment should be part of sexuality, fine! Leave it to others.

 

A big Yes

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