I agree! That is why I stopped. Mantak Chia also stated that he wishes that he never published those techniques because of the dangers involved. It doesn't seem natural at all. I would never do it again, When I learned about the ego and lust, etc, and about inner psychological work which is the real key, In a way I then saw the light lol.
Right! Im still debating where to go. I need to spend a few months in a warm place traveling, meditating, and finding my self. Im pretty sure that I will be able to conserve without wet dreams for longer than 40 days if I am backpacking, I hope anyways.
In which case Citra, I urge you not to repeat these techniques or if for some reason you wish to, please make it very clear that they are harmful to the male reproductive system. Your post read like a recommendation.
You are already more normal than most people out there bud, take it easy on yourself! Time heals all wounds. I search for the same. I want to look at women for who they truly are inside and not just the temporary illusion of beauty on the outside. I want to find real love again, love that brings a whole new meaning to life. I know this will come, but I have to do the hard work first and that work is on my psyche. In such little time, seeing such large progress has me very excited for the future! it is scary at times but I know if I- we, all stay true we will accomplish this if it is what we seek. Liberation from suffering starts here I believe, the elimination of lust.
“A person’s approach to sexuality is a sign of her or his level of evolution. Unevolved persons practice ordinary sexual intercourse. Placing all emphasis upon the sexual organs, they neglect the body’s other organs and systems. Whatever physical energy is accumulated is summarily discharged (through orgasm), and the subtle energies are similarly dissipated and disordered. It is a great backward leap.” – Lao Tzu
My experience is that wet dreams occur for 1 of two reasons. 1) semen simply accumulates in the prostate and needs to void. 2) While you are withdrawing and craving is raging in your brain even before prostate is ready, if you over stimulate the limbic system (viewing triggering material, violent video games etc) and go to sleep while cravings are raging hard you are very likely to experience a wd in your sleep as while the cravings are that bad the brain is gonna try to correct it at least thats my theory. I would suggest if you know a wd is coming in the next few days to use your morning wood to edge for like 15-20 mins without thinking of sex. This will pretty much load the prostate with semen without activating arousal pathways in your brain. Then at some point during the day when you urinate semen will leak out and you will have like another week b4 a wd comes. Also I recommend rising early and making sure you get up upon first hearing your alarm as if you drift back to sleep you tend to have more vivid dreams and I have found more wd happen during this time. Hope this helps
