The Brotherhood that is NoFap

Dear Fapstronauts,

This is not a personal success story. I will share today something that is obvious, and I know we all feel it, but we speak it out rarely. I am talking about the pain, fate and progress we share with each other. I am a soldier in the Dutch army and I have seen what brotherhood is like and what it means. So this message goes out to all the NoFap soldiers who endure the same pain I go through; the burden of overcoming PMO and becoming something greater.

Now, NoFap is nothing like the military, but you can almost call it an army now since we are gathering hundreds of thousands of men to our cause since it was launched so many years ago. For most of us, the NoFap journey is the hardest thing that has happened to us. It broke us, it had us unmade and question our very core of who we are. In this very dark period of possibly our lowest point in life, we turned to each other for a desperation of help, guidance and support.

And we did exactly that. We founded a community. We founded this very specific brotherhood of men wanting to break free of the greatest curse of male-female dynamics of this age; porn and the overspecialized pop-culture. We are the 1% who are willing to go through hell and beyond to rid ourselves of our greatest inner demon that is addiction.

But we could never do it alone. Just as I can not complete a mission without my brothers in the military, am I not able to overcome PMO without all of you, my NoFap brothers. Although I have never personally met another soul that does NoFap, I consider each and everyone of you my brother. You have helped me, and so I will help you as well. We take care of each other.

So thank you, all of you, who signed up to this community looking for answers as well as giving them. NoFap is our identity. NoFap is our brotherhood.

 

I want to thank everyone for their kind and inspiring reply. You are the evidence that we are the 1% of men who are meant for something better than our consumer society!

 

Yessss. I somehow am getting sooo much more glances and looks from girls, EVEN THOUGH I AM A RELAPSING WEAK F*CK. I guess my previous streaks changed me. NoFap has actually changed me a lot. I dated a girl in my last big streak and she was all over me despite me being in a depressive mood. If only I would approach all the girls that are looking at me, I figure I would be gathering a harem haha