Ok so I am 41 days in. Watched some porn for about 10 mins. But didn’t masturbate or touched myself. Is this a relapse? Should I reset the counter? Also didn’t fantasise about the images I saw
Nope I just stumbled upon it. Some random number invited me to a whatsapp group and videos were posted there. I quit the group and reported the number
10 minutes?! That went into your "Spank Bank" so yes, that should be counted a relapse. You may have not beat off right at the moment that you watched it, but now it is in your Spank Bank memory file.
I think that being honest with yourself is key to answer that question... but if you stumble across the porn and watch 10 minutes then think about carefully.
Of course this is a relapse.... if you look porn accidentally for a few seconds and click away yeah thats fine but 10 minutes?! Come on man, you knoe perfectly that thats a relapse... you dont need to M for it to count as a relapse! This forum is about no PMO and you definitley did the P (porn). So reset your counter, dont fool yourself this time! No porn means no porn! You can do it brother, come on, be honest with yourself, say to yourself that you dont do it again....
