Thanks a lot, man. If i can inspire anyone else to commit to fighting for the life that they deserve and desire, then that's all fine by me. But bear in mind, i haven't done anything that anyone else can't do. The power and inner strength to take control of our lives, live the life we choose and live in a state of beauty, appreciation and abundance (to name but three) resides within all of us. We just need to find it. We can all do this - lets become phenomenal men!..
Only if we are both ready and that is where the uncertainty is for us also? Just now read this. What would you do per our abstinence contract we said that we would wait and not move in lust but in love maybe even wait a week and plan it out really nicely or at least a day in advance it's not a race
Ok I see, then waiting will really be beneficial for both of you then! I know because I lost a relationship of 11 years with my ex and one of the main reason is my addiction to porn! Does she have the same problem as you do?
No she does not but she also realizes I have very hard and very high sex drive and she is in a lot of pain from what's going on with our son right now him being a prodigal
You have a good wife then, she's really supportive! Hope things will get better with your son and your life back in order. Blessings!
My wife is absolutely phenomenal and why she tolerates my bullshit I don't know and if that's not a God I don't know what it is
Day 123 of an unknown number me and my wife are working on our intimacy issues. We both discovered something yesterday that was largely neglected by my mind for a very long time due to the fact that I have ADHD and have a lot of medications there where I was on it's fogged my mind. I have been objectifying my wife for a long time, her pleasure and having sex with me disappeared for a long time and needs to be rediscovered. So it looks like that is my new motivation it's to make sure that she is absolutely ready she really enjoys not having the pressure of me wanting to always have sex. I didn't realize how one-sided it was for a very long time so we're being honest with each other it doesn't hurt me it definitely is an eye opener and it wakes us up. So it looks like I've got a lot longer to go so these challenges will help God bless and I know if I can do it when my hot-ass wife right here then I know that any of you out there can do it too.