Zero libido

When you get further into your reboot I can just use lotion and have a blank mind and just the physical pleasure alone gives me an erection. That's what people mean to sensation alone! No sexual mindset but just physical touch.

 

Guys am getting more wet dreams now a days and have been remembering them vividly. Previously it was of sex but not in a prono graphic way but today it was about fapping the old way without porn and I came ! Is there any way to stop it ? Any one has any explanation ? This is my 3rd wet dream in last 7 days !

 

it will be decrease man, body fix semen production . i cant see your days but , if u increase your day, wet dreams disappear.

 

@itachi. Bro am on day 87.
Wet dreams on day 37,60 and last three in last seven days ! Still my penis gets shriveled after wet dreams and stays like that !

 

Here's my advice. Make a move on a girl and you will probably find that your penis works! Happened to me. Thought my penis was dead. Hooked up with a girl and boom. Rock hard.

 

Brother

Am getting married in next 15 days ..cannot tell you what's happening inside me..I have told the girl about my porn addiction ..and told her that I won't be at a level which a normal guy would when it comes to sex and initimacy and to add to the disadvantage I am virgin..no sexual encounter and high performance anxiety also told her watching porn messes brains natural response to real life intimacy ...and honestly thinking about this pied and pmo has brought me to my knees ...all my marriage preparations have been done..and I came to know about this weak erection being caused by pmo ...till then never even considered that ...that girl was OK she said I could take time..may be she didn't understand fully..as I didn't tell her about this whole nofap and ybop ...honestly even I don't know where I stand..I digged in cause of weak erections to porn ..checked with urologist it all came fine physical T and blood ..they did its in your head so go for more foreplay and ed drugs to the first few encounters and stop taking later..
Am just clueless ! My daily life has taken a massive hit...even my confidence ..and yes being depressed/sad has become routine...I still in evening get those ..positive moments about being to beat this...and it will be okay..but just Dont know what future is going to bring !

 

Bro, if she already knows you've got through a solid test. Make it all about her. give her massages, go down on her for ages, there's many ways to please a woman! Be patient. It is scary though. Trust me. Do not go back to porn whatever you do!! Patience over porn.

 

Thank you so much brother !!

Your words mean a lot to me..yes will do. I just hope I heal soon.

Was just reading some interesting articles. It says ofc wet dreams are a product of your subconscious mind..but somewhere conciosuly we have implanted that need so it reavelas in that format. Just a theory though. Scientifically its just a body's way to get the extra semen out. But still we are scared coz of the P or M Or O that happens in the dream. For that in that article they say we need to stop giving a thought to sex and similar things altogether ! Dont know how much sense it makes but from tomorrow onwards am gonna do it...just stop worry about pied and try not to see if I get sensations down there when around my finance or not..also will try to go slow in the initial days - say a month with her...no orgasm or no sex...just intimacy will be the goal. Please pray for me ...this has to work out , will keep you all fellow brothers in my prayer too !

 

Also am done with porn for this life time..

I Dont know if its weird...but I just had no cravings to watch porn since the day I came to know the reason for my weak erection is porn. I Dont even wanna test....will do whatever it takes to get to PIV ... . BUT NO MORE PORN NOW..ONCE I AM THROUGH THIS..WHICH I KNOW I WILL..I WILL START A SOCIAL MOVEMENT IN MY HOME TOWN AGAINST PORN VIEWING ! that's my goal for now.