Changing The Way I Look At Women

It might be time to start meditating bro.

There are so many forms of meditation, from visualizations, to listening to stuff, to simply following your breath and sitting in the lotus position.

If not meditation, some kind of mental training, self-discipline building exercises.

That's what it comes down to, gaining control over your senses.

8 years of martial arts training and philosophical study has changed the way I view women in public. I haven't oogled a woman in public since I was 19.

Now pixels are something else. You put women in bikinis and underwear in front of my face, in the privacy of my own home, and the fantasy begins, lmao. But I have been contemplating the fact that those are real women, and whether or not they are at fault for having pics and videos taken of them with hardly any clothes on and posting them for all to see, well that does not matter. I am in control of my thoughts.

If you can't help but stare at women in public, that's how you know the 'monkey mind' is in control.

Those women you are 'oversexualizing' are sisters, girlfriends, wives, mothers, and daughters of people. Why would you degrade a random woman by thinking sexual things of her?

IMO the only time you should be having sexy thoughts of a woman is if you are in a relationship or dating her, or 'wooing' her because you want to be doing one of those things. Follow the way of nature in that respect, only a prospective mate should cause you to think sexy things. If you aren't trying to enter into a physical relationship with a woman, don't look at her with sexy eyes. It's that simple.

And ideally sex would not be the basis of the relationship, that's just shallow and base. But hey, to each their own.

 

I think you should stop looking at any Nudity on your screen , that will help really make a change with your perspective on woman , also Talking and Joking around with woman is the ideal way to change your look on them as a lust object , appreciate Talking to woman as Human beings not as Hot they are .

 

Just Appreciate talking to woman for who they are , don't be Dependent on them for seks*/intercourse , appreciate the fact that your standing right in front of a girl and talking to her and feeling happy around her , it will take some time to rewire this but it's very beneficial man , the mainstream Media is focusing on showing the image of a woman as the Hot Ideal Being(like a Godesse) focusing only on shwing them as a lust fullfilling beings , do some reasearch on this mate , stay clean

 

I feel your pain. I just want to see women as more. I've always respected genuine relationships, but I do look at women in lust. I just want that special woman that wants me for me, and I know God and Faith will get me there; without him I'd be completely lost. God bless you all.