ive succumbed, the nofap flatline has caused me mental tradgedies beyond explanation. fuck man i lost my girl and i cant even talk to girls anymore because if i do and it get serious i know i cant perform. whatever thats besides the point nofap along with self improvment has done great things to my life over the past year but man i cant do this anymore im too young to have this problem i miss my libido im doing everything in my power to get it back but it just wont i work out eat healthy and hella other shit im a healthy ass 16 year old, ive even made my life so busy that i forgot i used to enjoy women so its not like im depressed, idk man idk what to do this shit hurts
see like i wanna believe you man thank you but fuck i wanna take the blame but this problem is really the fault of the community. it was never clear to me that iwasnt supposed to orgasm during a flatline and i guess this doesnt happen often but horrible timing i had sex for the first time during my flatline and then i continued to have sex during my flatline for like a few dozen more times which mightve fucked my brain up. that shit was probably so much worse than porn to my brain because i was probably teaching myself that i could have an orgasm without being fully hard or aroused... idk this whole community needs an actual doctor who knows what hes talking about but fuck if anyones reading this be cautious with all this fucking bro science
There are did goals and methods for everyone. I am married so I just went with no P or M. Nothing alone. We do everything together. In this type Of together is ok and things are going well.
Just give your brain time to heal. It might take a while, but your libido comes back. If you had sex "a few dozen" times, you might not be really be in a flatline. That doesn't sound like "can't perform" to me. You might just be feeling satiated right now. There is also the Coolidge Effect, which makes women seem less attractive the more you sleep with them.
I have been fighting this for 8 years man and I have needed and still need help everyday. I know how hard it is. The way it affects your life. Do not make it a big thing. Do not give it power by letting the addiction think it is ruining your entire life, then there will be too much pressure on you to not masturbate which ironically will make you fap. Focus on the person you want to be in the future. I know any motivation you get in the stage you are in is useless man. You see the mind, it wants to ignore the clarity , it feels it easier to just be sad and frustrated and horrible because that's is what it knows how to do really well. The only way you can win this fight is through willpower. Trust me, I know that better than most people. How bad do you want this? Also, you can PM me if you want me to keep you accountable.
its not like that the sex i was is with the same person and its horrible i can rarely get hard and i just ejaculate to get it over with and give her oral she thought she was helping and i thought it would too but it just puts you into a deeper flatline
It sounds like ED. But I don't know if you had this issue before you started. Remember we are all just guys and girls who have or are going through these things and trying to help as best we can while we also heal. If it isn't working and responsive you may need to go hard mode for a while. If you don't feel sure about trying this go see a doctor. What ever you do we are here and will try to help as best we can.
i really hope not that sounds horrible i dont think it is because i have no genuine libido its just like this mental desire to please a woman
Have you thought about counselling. I used to be resistant to it but i'm finding it quite helpful in my recovery and avoidance of P. it may feel like forever but you are early into it. Just stick to it and the physiological part will turn around.
