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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Kokoos, Aug 12, 2018.

  1. Kokoos

    Kokoos Fapstronaut

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    Im 31 years Virgin, and i have had always sexual feeling for guys, and i rarely have sexual feelings for girls, although when i see a hot girl i can stare at her do you Think im gay or bi? I watch gay porn and i cant get hardon with straigth porn
     
  2. I think you won't really know until your mind is off porn. And for now don't worry about it. Just focus on healing. Either way you will still have this PMO problem beat.
     
  3. I think you are gay, but it is okay.
     
  4. Time 4 A Change

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    when did you start watching porn? and how did you feel before this? were you watching lesbian/straight before until it got boring? or were there no interest of this even when you started/before porn

    as people have mentioned above quitting PMO would really help clear your judgement

    is it just the sex you are attracted to or the person behind? can you see yourself being with a male romantically or just smashing and see more longevity with a female all in all bro, i think what matters most is clearing your mind and allow a rewire to take place this could have been developed but not much was said on your post

    all the best bro
     
  5. I agree, I think until you quit porn, your judgement is going to be clouded. I do believe sexuality is fluid and not as black and white has most people think it is. Quit porn, go out, and meet people. I think you'll figure it out.
     
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  6. alphamale2003

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    I smell a troll in the air...
     
  7. dragonaire

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    The answer is at your biology. A gay man falls in love with men, and a bi man falls in love with both genders. Its more reliable than just sexual desire because everyone use to fuck with everyone, but not everyone compromises or falls in love with anyone
     
  8. Jackb97

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    Quit porn.
    Still gay?
    Oh well be one of them super jacked gay dudes.
    Terrifying.
     
  9. I don't even know what that means. Please explain...
     
  10. Jackb97

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    Really? You're telling me you never seen a juiced to the gills gay dude?
     
  11. That is another new phrase (to me). :confused:
     
  12. Jackb97

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    Ripped. Buff. Hench.

    Enjoy this. It's terrifying.
     
  13. So, the man in the video is a "super jacked gay dude"; and "a juiced to the gills gay dude"?

    To answer your question, I have never seen someone like this. Is that how you envisage gay men?
     
  14. Jackb97

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    Not all them. Just seems that there is a higher percentage of buff gays than there is buff straights.
    I'm shocked you have never seen anything like this.
     
  15. ClaudeDuval

    ClaudeDuval Fapstronaut

    Bro many jacked and ripped men are gay... There's been a lot of gays in the bodybuilding world. Bob Paris was one of the more famous ones. Many dudes who look straight and are muscular or "masculine" looking are gay... Look at Jack Donovan(my favorite author). There's many who fit the "Tom of Finland" look... Gay men care a lot about their bodies lol I've been accused of being gay due to how much time I spend at the gym and how focused I am when it comes to my looks. lmao And being in the steroid/juice "scene" if there is such a thing, many gay dudes are juicing... Many dudes in these circles work as male strippers as well lol
     
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  16. I had no idea about any of this. I am not sure where I would have found this out to be honest. I know zero about the body building world. So, the "juiced" bit is literal juice, lol! Who knew? :rolleyes: Well, not me, haha. :D Thanks Jack and Claude. :)
     
  17. Atlanticus

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    I second this opinion/suggestion:)
     
  18. ClaudeDuval

    ClaudeDuval Fapstronaut

    [​IMG] The more you know: Gay edition
     
  19. swipka777

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    I am not against gays
     

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