Fed up of not seeing progress

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Gavalar09, Nov 19, 2018.

  1. Gavalar09

    Gavalar09 Fapstronaut

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    Having sex, but lately I can't get it up during sex and I'm back in flatline
     
  2. Mattew

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    Was your ed a hard case?

    If your ed was a hard case maybe you are having too much sex too early.
     
  3. Gavalar09

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    I believe so, took me 4 months to 'recover'. Tried to kick start my libido again with a minor relapse but that obviously backfired
     
  4. Anonymous86

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    Did you notice any major psychological or physical changes in the 4 months before the flatline happened again?
     
  5. Gavalar09

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    I felt alot better, penis was back at normal size, at time I could get horny just by kissing, managed to have sex albeit it was only 80% hard at times, more confident.
     
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  6. Khalifa1

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    Ok, i understand. may I ask how you get the 10-15 orgasms a month?
     
  7. Gavalar09

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    Through sex.
    I don't use porn or masturbate.
    Relapsed to a sex story to didn't M or O
     
  8. Maktek

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    sounds to me you just need to relax..... and i don't say that as general crappy advice. I am meaning you need to get your mind and body back to a state of PEACE ( yes iam aware not getting it up is causing anxiety and not making you relax) but still..

    Its like a loop that feeds itself. you cant get it up, you panic, and in turn you cant get it up even more so you panic even more. and its a loop. then comes stress and more tension etc. And once the MRS catches on that your abit broken atm then that adds EVEN MORE PANIC.

    so you see how it all feeds itself?

    again, you need to find where you can get a piece of mind away from all this ...

    How much do you exercise??
     
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  9. Napav

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    Even thinking about bad things will make you weak.
    Someone's quote - When mind sways, essence leaves...
     
  10. Gavalar09

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    Just thought I'd update you guys, managed to have sex the last 2 night, but the erection was pretty weak, my flaccid is looking a little better but that's about it.
    Still no morning wood, and I'm not orgasming during sex either