Do you think it's normal for women to be dominant?

Maybe I was being a bit harsh with what I said but I've been with an older woman and she wanted to be controlled. Age has nothing to do with it, it all depends on the kind of person you are. Really sexuality is a complex thing that shouldn't be simplified.

It seems this thread is trying to put women's sexuality in a box and no matter how we try that cannot be done. What's normal? Nothing's normal, we are all strange in our own ways. Some women like it rough, some like it soft and some like a mixture of both. It all depends on the person. A woman is a person and like men, she comes with the complexities that go with being a human being. Men and woman are human beings, not machines that come with guided instructions. Talk to the woman and find out what they like, don't seek out guided instructions.

 

Haha sick burn bro.

 

I think it generally depend on the mood and what you like
I think I like when both are passionate...... without laying stress on who is dominant.....
I am a virgin........but for porn basis.........I am ashamed to say that I like seeing submissive women in porn.......

 

It's not a matter of opinion, it's a matter of facts. The facts are my ex was older than me yet she wanted to be controlled. But as I said it differs from person to person.

 

The plural of anecdote is not data

 

So what is truth?

 

Are you sure about that??? I think that it is. Dont let western science keep you in a box!

 

I don’t think anyone can really determine what “normal” is when it comes to healthy activities in the bedroom, and by healthy I mean roleplay.

Role play for example is a huge thing among couples with healthy sex lives, my girlfriend and I have dabbled in roleplay and I we’ve done various scenes, for example she’s the princess and I’m the servant..which would mean she was the dominant one. There are other times I’ve roleplayed a manager and her an employee etc. Often times more than any other there isn’t even any roleplay and neither of us act dominant.

I think at the end of the day it’s all fun and we love one another. Personally I’ve always found it very arrousing when my girlfriend acts a bit in charge in the bedroom, different strokes for different folks.

If anything the abnormal thing would be thinking that as a man I always need to be dominant in the bedroom.

 

Guys IT IS MUTUAL relationship !!
there is no dominancy or submissiveness