Can't get hard in the middle of sex

I've had that problem. I get excited, but then I lose my hard on while I'm working on getting my wife excited. When she's finally ready, I'm not feeling it anymore.

 

Are you still taking things into your own hands. If yes, your sensitivity is not where it should be and can be making you go soft. If not it can be a psychological thing. It could also be a medical condition.

 

Hi,

Not sure how long since you stopped watching porn but you can go through a low labido point and this can be for some time. Perhaps chat to your girlfriend about how you are feeling. Feeling guilty and helpless towards her will only put more pressure on yourself which will then create anxiety and that in itself will make it difficult to maintain an errection.

First thing to do is show yourself some compassion, it will help.

G

 

I would suggest an experiment.
If while masturbating you get hard then it is psychological erectile dysfunction and if you cannot get hard even after so many attempts of masturbation then it is physiological.
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I bet pied. Stopped watching p and mo and erections are coming back

 

Hi. I had the same issue when i was dating. You should consider going to your Dr. They will tell you its 99% mental but they can prescribe you boner pills.

 

You have classic PIED.

Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction.

If you’re watching porn cut it out entirely, don’t even touch down there. This is the only way you will achieve rock solid erections and maintain them for penetration.

I had this issue, it’s serious so don’t underestimate it. It took me roughly 1.5 years to beat my PIED. I hate to break it to you but it can take this long to be fully recovered.

 

Medications, lack of sleep, stress, diet and lack of right amount of exercise and sun exposure w/ earthing may be a reason for your semi E.D.

 

I completely identify with this problem as I experienced it after about 2 weeks of nofap. My libido was down but I still felt the need to be with my wife because she wanted it. I cojldcou explain what was happening but I had a feeling it was from eliminating my addictive behaviors.

Any updates on this issue my friend? I'm starting this process over and am concerned I will experience this issue again.

 

Bro，you are not alone, this is exactly the same with my condition. Morning wood is good but useless! When it comes to the real deal, it’s still not working. My girlfriend just left me due to this, I am devastated. Start to think that nofap isn’t going to fix me, this damage maybe permanent...

 

i know the feeling, E.D in the middle of intimacy is devastating to me, the last time E.D happened i was viewing P i didnt M but i was viewing it an it gave me a unnatural rush, it hyped me up way to much, what are your pmo streaks like, are you on one now,

 

Lol at the girls leaving you guys for getting soft. They are worthless. My gf waited for me at least one month, possibly 3 months I dont remember. Than I fcked her brains off everytime. Those girls you lost... you are better without them. Girl should support you with love and patience. I guess its some low confidence on their side.

What helped me was noPMO and just trying it again and again and again with my gf. Also, getting used to her, so I was not stressed etc.

Good luck. And I agree with a 1,5 years to cure fully. Because after cca one year, I was almost healed, I just had a delayed ejaculation I GUESS. But thats ok, you can f her for hour and if u do it right, than trust me, she is not gonna protest.. I finished up by oral usually.

Edit: after 1 year we split, not because of sex... so I needed a bit more time to heal 100%. Thats why Im doing hard mode again, untill I find another girl

 

How long did you use P? Was it everyday and different niches etc? My P consumption dropped over the last couple of years but still have pied. Just on day 85 hard mode and erections are returning well

 

It’s quite a blur as to when exactly I started but I would estimate it around 14 years old, it lasted up until 24 and it was nearly every day for a decade, it started with normal things but developed into different fetishes and femdom. I’m 26 now.

 

if all else fails, you have to resort to the blue pills, otherwise you go crazy and your partners are not happy.
NoFap may indeed help you, but you don't know whether it will and if at all, how long it will take. You can't even be sure that your ED problems are really porn related. On top of that, you don't necessarily have the time to find out as your partners are demanding sex.

That is the sad reality, not trying to glorify the blue pill, but it seems to be the crutch that some people (like me) have to hold on to.

I have have this problem you describe as well, it got a bit better since I don't use porn anymore. I know, I am old, but I have had erection problems when I was young. So I am really not sure whether my problems have that much to do with porn. Fortunately, I have a patient wife.

Your problems may run deeper than just porn or you may have some physical issues as well. Who knows?

 

wtf guys, hes 25, he doesnt need bluepills, he need to work on it... stop PMO and than rewire with a real woman, who will wait for him, love him, and support him. Odds are its 90% PIED and 10% some physical condition, maybe even less. So please...

 

Trust the process. I went 6 month without even touching myself and when I finally blew one off I felt like I was 13 again.

Another thing I'd recommend is talking it with her. If she doesn't understand then she's probably not the one pal. Sorry.