Currently right now I’m on day 65 hard mode. And I have not had one wet dream, how come? Is that a bad thing? I actually don’t think I’ve ever had a wet dream that I know of. But before I didn’t need one, I fapped so much. Currently I do get erections sometimes upon awaking I’m the morning, but no wet dreams.. What gives??
About 5 years ago I went around 4 months hard mode and I also didn't have any wet dreams that I recall, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. I only remember maybe 1 wet dream in my whole life when I was a teen actually. Despite no wet dreams I cured my PIED so hard mode definitely worked for me.
Nothing to worry about. You'll quite possibly get one in the coming weeks or months. And if you don't it doesn't mean a thing. Sometimes I'll get 2 in a month other times none for months... Cafeine/chocolate at night can trigger them but I wouldn't advise experimenting with it.
I'm in 'hard mode' since July 2017 and never had a wet dream in all these months. In my first months of reboot I used to get semen leakage after some physical activity, but not much now. Maybe I'm already too old for wet dreams.
Just be happy. Saying as someone who's had too many wet dreams that I've stopped counting, wet dreams aren't fun. They may come if you don't control your thoughts enough, but don't stop controlling your thoughts just because you want a wet dream- I think we all know how harmful it is to not control your thoughts.
Never had a wet dream, my longest streak was 62 days, than 3 x 36 days... it never happened in my life...
It might look impressive at first glance, but actually I completely lost sex drive during the abstinence and I don't feel any urges to orgasm. Everytime you watch porn you sexually stimulate yourself, when visual sexual triggers are gone the desire to have sex is gone too. Masturbating to sensation (without porn) is not interesting and I don't have a partner to 'rewire'. So in my case 'hardmode' is more involuntary than a conscious choice.
Right there with you man. I cannot even remember if I've ever had one, and I'm certainly not having them now with nofap. I expect for the long-term addicts like us that the reboot will take longer.
Hey buddy you can read about it here: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/my-previous-success-story-pied-totally-cured.205856/ But tldr: about 40 days for it to be 70% or so cured and 3-4 months for 100% (or near 100).
I know what you mean. I’m there with you. However I am still very horny and am stimulated by almost everything. I have gone back and forth through flatline I think. Sometimes I have no urges and feel nothing, sometimes I feel I can explode.
I went 195 days hard mode with zero wet dreams. I’ve seen lots of people in here talk about wet dreams and I’ve noticed 2 things. First, they are sometimes younger in age (teenagers). And second, they almost always touched themselves and did some sort of edging along the way. This was usually geeking out in insta models, or touching themselves too long in the shower or something like that. Since your not experiencing that, I would guess that you have done zero edging so far??? Ps good job on your streak!
Thank you. Yes. Zero edging. About two weeks in I didn’t edge but I did rub myself against something for a few seconds but I stopped. It’s hard to explain, lol. It’s something I used to do.
Yup that’s consistent with my theory. And rubbing against something is how I ended up relapsing lol. Had a pillow between my legs to sleep when I hurt my back and the rest is history.
How is everything going with you man? You had a heck of a really long streak! How are you feeling now and how is life going In general?
Really bad lol. Social anxiety returned with a huge force. Which starts the cycle of wanting to escape the anxiety with PMO and so on... But getting tired of it so trying hard mode again.