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Concerns about PE

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Skyfall1125, Dec 27, 2018.

  1. Dec 27, 2018 #1
    Skyfall1125

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    Premature Ejaculation

    Having gone nearly 60 days recently with no PMO, I still find myself concerned with premature ejaculation. This is something that I have suffered from ever since my first sexual experience at age 18, but I was also already watching porn and masturbating regularly for years prior to the first time I had sex.
    During the recent 58 day no PMO streak, my gf started rubbing me. Even though I had my clothes on I still ejaculated in my jeans after just a few min. Not a lot of stimulation and no skin on skin, but it was enough to take me over the edge. This has caused me a lot of concern because one of the things I had hoped to gain with nofap is increased sexual performance. And maybe that will still be possible with rounds 2 and 3. I couldn't tell you because I'm not sexually active right now. Any insight or knowledge in this area would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
     
    Skyfall1125, Dec 27, 2018
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  2. Dec 27, 2018 #2
    Unibet

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    With no PMO for 2 months, obviously female contact is going to get you aroused and ready to go.
    You could take it as a good thing that your brain can now finally accept the possibility that all women don't need to PORN ACTRESSES to get you turned on or allow the porn that you used to watch let you think you are supposed to last hours on hours everytime.
    You could PE a few times in your life, no big deal as long as you are able to get your lady off eventually.

    T'inquiète pas mon frère
     
    Unibet, Dec 27, 2018
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  3. Dec 27, 2018 #3
    Fallensoldier1

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    I am in similar situations as you. I have had trouble with PE before. And to combat that when I was sexually active before, me and the lady would go for round 2 and I could last much longer. I wouldn’t be too worried about going in your jeans with her rubbing on you. It was still female contact. You didn’t watch P and you didn’t touch yourself. I honestly wouldn’t even count that as a relapse.

    I think we will get the most benefit over long time elimation of P and touching ourselves. I think if we were having sex regularly and still doing no P and M, we would start to last longer. But when we are on long streaks and a lady touches us, of course we will finish early!!! I hope it improves over time as well.
     
    Fallensoldier1, Dec 27, 2018
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  4. Dec 27, 2018 #4
    Skyfall1125

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    I feel somewhat confident that I would last longer on rounds 2 or 3, but that obviously didn't happen. Later that night, I got very hard again and did not feel quite as sensitive as before. I'm not planning to test this though. I'm also not planning to have sex again until I marry this woman which could be over a year from now.
     
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  5. Dec 27, 2018 #5
    Skyfall1125

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    Well I set out to do hard-mode 90 days. No PMO. And while I didn't PM, I did O, and that counts as a relapse in my book. Albeit a healthy one, still a relapse. Especially for someone like me that is coming off a 10 year addiction to PMO in my 20s. I need at least 90 day hard mode, but probably much longer to clean out this filth.
     
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