Reboot going great! some tips needed

Hello, long story short PMO free 1.5 months. Was a virgin when i started to date a girl and i couldnt get hard for penetration. Quitting porn was the easiest thing to do when you think you can't have sex so after one month i received a nice handjob and came like a horse. A week later i was able to perform some sex. Although i still can't get very hard from just kissing, i need help from my female friend. I don't feel anything when i get blowjob, i get soft. Sex is not very special experience also but its ok. Yesterday had sex 2 times. I noticed if i dont get physical stimulation i get soft again. Anyway sorry if i post in wrong place just wanted other people to know that im getting better and so that others can.
How can i increase my penis sensitivity or it just takes time thats all?
When approximately i can expect to get boners without stimulation?

Good luck guys!