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Can I still watch sexual related images and such?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Fucacci, Jan 29, 2019.

  1. Fucacci

    Fucacci Fapstronaut

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    I am part of this fun group with my friends and we share funny images, whereas some consists of nudity. I feel a very little to non-existent urge to fap to porn to be honest. I have been flatlining for about 1 and a half month, with brief moments of pretty decent libido. These pictures do not trigger an emotional response in my brain as far as I can tell, I just look at it and laugh it off and move on with my day, no rethinking the scenery and fantazing about it. Is this a indicator that I am rebooted by now? I still struggle with my libido which sucks. Last 2 experiences with women was absolutely horrifying as my dick just wouldn't get hard even after foreplaying, touching and kissing the girl. Even after she gave me a BJ, it just went slightly hard, for a sec, and we fucked for like 10 secs until it went soft again...

    And yeah another thing, I like to kind of just mess around with my dick to see if I can get it hard with no thoughts in my mind, maybe as a practice/confirmation that my libido still is there but just supressed for some reason.. Could this potentially be hurtful? Man this flatline thing really sucks, and I don't even want to meet women right now tbh because of that.
     
  2. Retentionman

    Retentionman Fapstronaut

    Absolutely, the same happens with me now, it'sabout taming the beasts, not caging them.

    I would not recommend this, it's playing with fire, why don't you just wait for a whole reboot? Also, do you consider this low libido or straight ED?? Because I think if you just don't have libido it's good, we flatline in different ways. But if you feel horny but your Dickus do not respond maybe try excercising your PC muscles meanwhile
     
  3. Fucacci

    Fucacci Fapstronaut

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    Nah when the dick doesn't work I'm usually not that horny to be fair. So I suppose you could just call it low libido, which is essentially as you say what happens when rebooting. But the question is, I have a feeling these flatline periods will continue as they are right now, I don't assume they will ever stop as long as I don't expose myself to sexual intercourse and try to get turned on, and maybe even then it will not work. So how do I know when I can start masturbating again, in a healthy manner, and when my libido is sucsessfully restored and recovered? I mean, will there a clear indicator, like for instance raging morning woods and much more noticeable sex drive for a much longer period than these brief moments of libido that I have experienced?And with brief, I mean like probably just 1 day where I feel pretty darn horny and then back to normal. These flatlines just gonna continue forever I feel like, with brief moments where my normal sex drive comes back, but then back to flatline again..
    Also, can you maybe try to explain to me the benefits of doing PC exercizes? Is it because this muscle becomes weak when you dont use your dick for anything and you should try to maintain its strength?
    Thanks for the reply btw, I appreciate it!
     
    Last edited: Jan 30, 2019
  4. I don’t think we should judge ourselves for messing with our dicks. You have to be comfortable with your own sexuality and not have shame. Thanks for your brutal honesty.
     
  5. Retentionman

    Retentionman Fapstronaut

    Ok I see, then how about this. You wait for the 100 days noPMO for a full recovery, then you can start experimenting with yoursef. But please control yourself to not fall again in the same business, I read in a Tao book that you can make love to yourself (without ejaculation but rather injaculation, very important) in other words the equivalent to having sex vs making love, but with fapping lol.

    Regarding the PC excercises, I thought you had problems with erection. But it's just low libido. However it never hurts to implement them in your routine, it helps you develope your muscles that control ejaculation etc. Good luck
     

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