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What is everybody's reason to Masturbate or look at porn??

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Tiger1, Feb 22, 2019.

  1. Tiger1

    Tiger1 Fapstronaut

    Just like the title says, I'm more then curious to know, "What is everybody's reason to Masturbate and look at porn??"

    I know everybody is different, but I will make a list to some reasons why I think most people do those two things and I'll put on a few twist on them....anyways here they go.

    1) feels good
    2) looks good
    3) stress reliever
    4) free time
    5) etc...

    Number one reason is cause it feels great, am I right? But why do we turn to those two things to make us feel great, when we can either go running, paint something, draw something, watch movies, listen to music, hang out with friends, talk to your spouse????? Me my myself I'm noticing that I feel great staying away from masturbating and looking at porn; mainly cause I'm being true to myself and not filled with guilt by doing it....

    Number 2 reason is cause it looks great am I right? Well that...it's hard to escape from cause it's in our DNA, if we weren't attracted to the opposite sex like God created us to be there weren't be any existing people it's all biological......but why dont we try to find something as equal to beauty, like mountains, hills, rivers, streams, lakes, rivers, sunrises, sunsets, fields, farmland, zoo's, safari's...etc??? I know some people don't have some of those near you but must cities have parks that you can go too...I guess what I'm trying to say is objectify something natural and not lustful desires.

    Number 3 reason is a stress reliever, am I right? Yeah I know that I'm bad for this, when I'm angry, sad, or depressed I always turn to look at porn and masturbate....does that give us a right to dodo th?? I say no cause dealing with stress by turning to those two things doesn't help matters it just suppressed them and make things worst....and it just shows what our character really is like. We should turn to do something that gives us comfort lie walking, jogging, listening to music l...etc I don't know but turning to those things are not the answer.

    Reason number is 4 is free time am I right? Well if you have enough time to masturbate and look at porn, something's that's not really productive you should have time to doing something more productive like cooking, baking, cleaning the house, laundry.....etc

    Number 5 is broad and this where you come in.....cause there's so many more reasons why people turn to this that I have not yet said or thought of......so feel free to say your reasosn, looking forward to see the reasons.
     
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  2. It's simply because of our sex drive. You are a sexual being, you see a naked woman and a man doing to her what you'd like to do to her and you get hard and you masturbate (which is a simulation of penetration, your hand pretending to be a vagina...).
    It feels good and then you go after it again, and overtime it can become a stress reliever and so on.
    The only reason so many of us quitted is because for some of us it brought so many problems that the pleasure was no longer worth it.
     
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  3. bobross

    bobross Fapstronaut

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    Because sex is a natural part of our bodies. We have the basic drive to procreate. It's normal for that prospect to be more desirable over a mountain, or painting. The problem starts in the modern society, where we have substitutes for the natural, healthy act of sex, easy to reach. That's where addiction comes from. It would be pathological if I would be more attracted to looking at a beautiful picture of a forest than to a beautiful woman.
    It's a nice initiative OP, but I think your reasoning is a bit on the weak side. I wish it were not so, but wishes build no bridges.
     
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  5. acquasalata

    acquasalata Fapstronaut

    Because of everything you said, plus the thought "I don't lose anything doing it, so why bother?".
    The problem here is, I was wrong. I was losing everything.
    I was wasting A LOT of time, I was losing my relationships, I was losing my sanity and my will to live, I was losing my perception of the world.
    And I understood all that only when I stopped.
     
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  6. Personally I think much of the time in my life that I have spent masturbating or sleeping with girls has been due to loneliness or boredom. Of course some of it has been down to sex drive also.
    In terms of it feeling good, I now find that the immediate moments after ejaculating are incredibly empty and it takes days for any pleasure to return to my life.
    A pretty good reason to stop, really!
     
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  7. Tiger1

    Tiger1 Fapstronaut

    Good reasons, I guess everybody's reason is sex drive.
     
  8. Because I love women nothing wrong with naked women or sex just watching it or looking at it then pmoing takes away my drive to seek it .
     
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