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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by victoryisnear, Feb 24, 2015.

  1. Feb 24, 2015 #1
    victoryisnear

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    the hardest thing to do is to get back on after a relapse. I had a twenty day strike 3 day ago and not I can't stop. Anyone having this problem?
     
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  2. Feb 24, 2015 #2
    Douglas03

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    I'm in the same boat as you man. Lets keep trying.
     
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  3. Feb 24, 2015 #3
    BallsOfSteel

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    I think one of the easiest ways to make yourself stop is to place yourself in a situation where you can't possibly get to porn, even if you wanted to. Get dressed, get out of the house, away from computer, surround yourself with people, go to the library (the books section, not the A/V or PC Lab), ride the bus... whatever will keep you from putting your hand down your pants.

    Then you can start again with a cleaner head, and renewed willpower.

    Good luck, brother.
     
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  4. Feb 24, 2015 #4
    victoryisnear

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    Yeah I'm going to try that. IDC how cold it is, I have to stop. It usually happens when I am bored and have nothing to do.
     
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  5. Feb 24, 2015 #5
    victoryisnear

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    Agreed. never give up
     
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  6. Feb 24, 2015 #6
    Bobbyalan

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    Any tips to stop watching on my phone?
     
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  7. Feb 24, 2015 #7
    Greek99

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    Everybody fails at this. Even the guys who have gone 2 or 3 years clean, had a very rocky start. Its natural, you are breaking an addiction in your brain for one of the most powerful human drives in your body (sex). Maybe 1 out of 1000 quits cold turkey and never does it again.

    The answer is to try again and try harder. Just realize you want to break this damn thing, because you want to improve your life and you want that MORE than that jerk off fix you get.
     
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  8. Feb 25, 2015 #8
    victoryisnear

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    Yeah, the phone is a major problem. I would suggest getting a parental blocker, like k9, but those don't work 100%. What I hear is you can take cold showers. Which helps or you can exercise. If you ever have a moment of PMO, come back to this nofap forum. And read other people success stories. It's really reassuring to know that you aren't the only one struggling to get better. 1000 of people are in this together. Good luck
     
    victoryisnear, Feb 25, 2015
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